THIS IS GOING TO SOUND WEIRD.BUT AS DAYS AND MINUTES GO BY I WOUNDER WHY I FEEL LIKE I DO. I SEARCH FOR PEOPLE TO CHAT WITH IN YAHOO CHAT ROOMS FROM OHIO 17 13 10 WOUNDERING IF I WILL FIND A PERSON WHO WILL HELP ME SMILE.. AT AGE 52 I SHOULDNT BE DISPRESSED. I OWN A BYUSINESS HAVE 5 DOGS I TAKE CARE OF AND YET I STILL JUST SET AROUND AROUND LIKE I AM WAITING ON SOMETHING TO HAPPEN TO ME. WHY ( I DON'T KNOW!) IS THERE REAL PEOPLE OUT HERE? IS THERE TURN LOVE IN THE WORLD. WHAT HAPPEN TO MY LIFE WHY IS IT LIKE A LAKE EMPTY. MY HEART IS LIKE A STONE VERY HARD AND COLD. I CRY FOR LOVE I ASK FOR HELP AND NO ONE HEARS MY PLEA'S. WHERE DID ALL THE HAPPNESS GO. I WAS HAPPY ONCE. I JUST DON'T CARE.I REMEMBER TINA BUT SHE HAS FORGOTTEN ME I AM SURE. SHE LIVE'S IN ARIZONA. I WANT TO GO THERE BUT I AM AFRAID SHE WILL BE MARRIED OR WILL TELL ME TO LEAVE HER ALONE... I HAVEN'T SEEN HER SINCE 1996 GOD TIME FLYS ... IF YOU CAN TRUELY HELP ME PLEASE EMAIL ME AT BDMXZ@HOTMAIL.COM THANKS !!!!!!
2006-12-27 09:32:11 · 9 answers · asked by dj.wildman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And you think that Yahoo has that answer??.....no can do
You create your world of herat and live in your space...so treat yourself to a dinner and Ice cream on me.
2006-12-27 09:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Depressed:
First, if you heart were stone you wouldn't feel depressed - you'd feel nothing. Second, for someone who owns their own business you don't communicate properly or understand "spell check".
At the risk that you are telling the truth here is my response:
The problem is you are feeling alone and are afraid to do anything. You sound like you sit and wonder too much. You need to keep your mind occupied. Inactivity can make you depressed and chatting online doesn't help prevent the feeling of isolation. I would like to suggest you do charity work, go to social events, go to Arizona and possibly get rejected - at least you will be doing something besides feeling sorry for yourself. Even if you have to pretend to be happy for a while - happiness has a way of creeping up and truly finding you. Get out in the world and never fear rejection!!!
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-27 09:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sr. I understand what You are going through, I once was depresed too, I was a teen by then, and as time passed, I found out that I needed to get out of that situation. I desperately wanted to have a girlfriend, but nothing happened, whenever we moved, I thought to myself; may be I'll meet some one to fall in love with, but nothing happened. Even in my eaarly 30's I wasn't married, and I was depresed because of that, I even thought that I was going to die without finding a wife. I've been married 11 years now, and I'm happy.
I don't know what your relationship with God is, but if you seek Him first, He will take care of you. I almost wasted my life waiting for a certain girl, and I didn't have eyes for any one else but her. And guess what... I ended up marrying her.
There are a lot of wonderful people out there, try not to focus so much on your business, go outdoors, find may be a hiking partner, a fishing partner, a whatever partner, but get out, if you stay indoors for long time, you are just hurting yourself. I wish we lived close so me and my wife would have you over for dinner some time.
Try establishing a relationship with God, you won't regret it. You can e-mail me trough my profile. God Bless.
2006-12-27 09:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave tina alone, she obviosuly needs her space from you. I think you are going through a desperate phase. but its okay you can get out of it, try to keep yourself occupied, do things thatt you used to enjoy doing as a child. Seriosuly, find ways to make YOURSELF happy, dont expect others to make you happy all the time, its ture that most people dnt like being around other depressed ppl, why? because you'll bring them down. You can be happy again though, remember that one moment when you were really happy? well,dont worry u'll get that feeling back again one day. It will happen, just give it somet ime, and dont get stuck in that depression rut. learn to love yourself, and then someoen will love you too. goodluck =)
2006-12-27 09:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression takes on a very sad color when it's clinical..prehaps you should talk to a counselor, see a specialist. I am not poking fun at you, truly, I , myself have had to seek professional help. Thank God, it is better, however, it would not be if I had not taken the steps to get well. Best of luck!
2006-12-27 09:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you depressed or lonely? It is nice to know some people and learn new things. Just remember you have babies that care about you and need you. That should make you smile. Or you can come to Ft. Laud. and enjoy the craziness here. lol
2006-12-27 09:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen, why don't you go to Hong Kong. It is a man's dream. All the good looking girls. Treat yourself to a nice spa and have fun!
2006-12-27 09:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fink Tina you have nothing to lose.Hang in there.We care just cant help.
2006-12-27 09:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow man
take a trip to miami or brazil
it will clear ur head
2006-12-27 09:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋