all right, i'm just gunna go right to the point. im not a s.lut or anything, im just wondering.. when your girl is down there... er.. blowing and whatnot.. and the guy pushes your head up an down.. is this normal? every time this happens and i wanna see how many other girls have had their boyfriends push their head up and down. and guys why do you do this? why dont you do it? ... i mean sometimes he strokes my hair. but umm.. yea.. thanks
2006-12-27 09:24:55 · 30 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal and I love it!! I practically have to beg him to do it though. I don't think its degrading at all, I think its sexy and its lets me know he's loving it. After all...when he is "down there" on you don't ya kinda wanna grab his head and urge him on?!?!?!?!
PS....Molly says its abuse...I say loosen up Molly and have some freakin fun!
PPS....I am totally amazed at the number of females who are makin a huge issue over this! Its not like your man is kicking the crap out of you or a** raping you!!!! I mean if he is pushing you all the way down and holding you there as you cant breathe that's one thing but to just move your head up and down????? Really if your man is doing a good job down there but maybe off a tiny bit or not going fast enough you'd want to move him or speed him up right??? Not to mention who doesn't like a bit of control over their own pleasure???
Good Grief!
2006-12-27 09:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by christine a 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have never done this. If she knows what she's doing (and the ones I have been with do) the last thing she wants is me to push her head up and down. I like and she loves me to stroke her hair.
2006-12-27 17:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are asking why he pushes your head up and down. I would say to set the pace. He probably likes it at a certain pace and is tryng to show you. Pay attention to how fast or slow he is moving you so you can try it on your own next time. I like to change the pace from fast to slow and back again. Just pay attention to his reactions to see if he likes it or not. When he is moaning, keep doing what you are doing.
2006-12-27 17:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to push my wife's head up and down, Most women don't like it. For some reason it's part of the male's reflex to do it. It's very hard to resist it. I will hold her hair out of the way so I can watch.
2006-12-27 17:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by septaric_1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do that with girls I have been with for awhile, but not during first encounters. I had a girl ask me to do it before. She liked to be dominated in a small way. It makes the man feel more involved. I hate just laying there I want to participate, but I know some women don't like it, so I wait until I know them better.
2006-12-27 17:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by scubamasterme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to stop if this makes you feel uncomfortable. You have the right to say, "Don't do that." As a man I have had a few different girls do this but I have never grabbed her head and forced her up and down. Believe it or not there are girls that love the forcefulness of this. Both should agree to this however. As for me I prefer to allow the woman to do as she wishes to do. Hey ... I'm not gonna complain.
2006-12-27 17:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me being a guy and all I don't really know what to say because this kind of question is well one that I'm not normally asked but all I can say is some guys do things when we're in a certain state of mind and I;m sure you can figure out the rest.
2006-12-27 17:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sonic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly a normal thing for him to do....although it's not very considerate.
By moving you up & down he is trying to establish a rhythm. Which if you know anything about Fellatio, you know about the rhythm.
If it bothers you, tell him please not to do it...but try to work on your rhythm. Do 5 short and 5 long, and keep it going 5 & 5, 5 & 5 until he does his thing.
2006-12-27 17:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be multiple reasons for it...
Some people like a lot of touching during sex, and with you in that position, he may not have a lot to touch...
Sometimes it's a way of asserting yourself as dominant, by controlling the partner.
2006-12-27 17:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by theVisionary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I wan't to SEE it, turns my on. So, I'll move her hair out the way so I can.
When I do put my hand on her head, sometimes I feel as if I shouldn't (Sometimes I think it's too 70's style porn)
2006-12-27 17:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋