OK! here's the the thing...... I have my moments in which i feel the need to masturbate everyday right before i go to bed!!! some times i'll be ok for a while and not do it but then i'll just start again.... my other problem is that i feel like doing it in the oddest moments!! out of nowhere i'll feel like doing it in the car when im JUST sitting there! or ill feel like doing it when im at WORK!!! I dont understand why i get these urges!! expecially the things i think about just to get me going!! I mean I'm a straight person and i think about GIRLS when i masturbate!!! whats up with me!
2006-12-27 09:01:12 · 33 answers · asked by Chikana24/7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I am a girl! and Yes I am in a relationship, but its not my guy thats making me do this because I've done this even when I was with out him! oh and im 21 yrs!
2006-12-27 09:22:57 · update #1
thats hot! i just did after reading that!
2006-12-27 09:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by sfpd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, don't freak out, okay? But there are such people called "latent homosexuals". A lot of people think that men who like men are homosexuals, and women who like women are lesbians. But to wrap it all up, they're all considered to be homosexuals. Yes, even women can be homosexuals. A latent homosexual is a person who has desires for the same sex but they just haven't done it yet. They may never do it for one reason or another but they are still considered to be in a state of latency. Some people can remain in that state for life with no problems while others will face a lifetime of difficulty not being able to be who they are. As in your case with the need for constant masturbation and thinking about girls. I'm not going to tell you to go out and have sex with another female, but you need to find out if what you're feeling for women is genuine or something else. Be careful, though. To have a homosexual experience and find out that you're not can be a very repulsing thing. I suggest you talk with a professional on this matter.
Signed: The Overweight Lover
2006-12-27 09:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal and may have an above average sex drive. Hormones are not predictable and we get aroused by many sunconscious things. I often get urges to masturbate at work, driving, or public places. Unfortunately being a guy it is hard to hide at times. You are at a age of sexual curiousity which would explain the fantasies about girls when masturbating. You may even decide at some point to act on these urges at some point and be with a woman. Most people have sexual dreams/thoughts about the same sex at some point in their life. If you end up being bisexual there is nothing wrong with you. Just be you and have fun with your life! Happy masturbating!
2006-12-27 09:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through the same thing and I'm not a lesbian but the reason why you have those urges is probably because you find yourself either thinking about having sex or getting horny just out of nowhere and the reason why you think about girls when you masturbate is probably because you fantisize about having sex with one maybe thats why I think about girls but anyway you might be suffering from hedonism or something like that, thats what i was told about me but I don't believe it at all.
2006-12-27 09:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal. You will find that the urges come and go. I get them everywhere for several weeks, then am just fine not doing it for a week. It is strange and I don't know what makes it come on, but when it does, it is RAGING! LOL! Don't worry about it unless it rules your life and is taking away from your everyday living. Enjoy it and do it whenever you can! It may not last forever. Oh, and don't get caught in public or at work.
2006-12-27 09:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
need more info - like are you a girl? and how old. are you in a relationship already?
i see your pic but it is not clear based on your question.
in general - it is very normal what you are going through.
You are just have a propensity to be a very sexual emotional person who is easily inclined to stimulation. you are probably very outgoing and are aggressive in relationships. you are also probably very independent and very secure in your sexuality.
Not that you should just drop your pants anywhere and start friggin in public - but at the same time - do not think you are a bad person or deprive yourself of the necessary stimulation.
Wait for the proper moment with discretion and relieve yourself.
stats say that 8 out of 10 women masturbate and can do it as often as 1x per day based on sexual relations at the time.
2006-12-27 09:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a boy or a guy? its very odd, i mean i get the same urges, but i feel the need for a guy so bad, and sometimes i feel guilty, othertimes dirty, because i think its lame for me masturbating and not waiting for the guy you know, but if you think about girls and you are a girl you got a much bigger problem, you need to talk to someone rigth away, but not just anyone, someone you knoe you can truste, and i dont trust many people but i mostly talk to God about this kind of stuff, because i feel bad when i do it. I dont want to feel the urges either, i want to be able to wait for my soulmate.
2006-12-27 09:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought I was the only person who did all that stuff.
Reading what you wrote, I swear I thought it was something from my personal journal.
Yes I have the thoughts about other girls as well, I'm not sure if its "normal", I doubt normal can be defined. Just be happy to know that you're not alone. Kudos to you for talking about it.
I'll return to this question to see what others have to say. :$
2006-12-27 09:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a thought but maybe your turning bi-sexual or even maybe lesbian. But your not the only one out there that loves to masturbate and thing about girls at the same time...(i do it too). But im learnig to control it and maybe yo can too.
2006-12-27 09:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!! I feel like I am reading my own thoughts right now. I have the same problem. LOL....... I'm so serious. I think we are just some horny chicks. But is it normal???? I don't know. But until I find out I am going to keep on doing it =) Just ENJOY it Sweets.
2006-12-27 09:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's perfectly normal and nothing is wrong with you. If you think about girls, then that means your bi curious. Go explore that side of yourself. I've done it before in some strange places to, lol.
2006-12-27 09:05:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋