is it...possible to fall in love with a person you fell in love with.. 1-3 years ago?like high schoolers... you hear so much "love" in that time of a person's life.but still... can it be? to feel love... for the same person even though they;ve caused you pain in the past? and...just... ya know? you;ve grown up a bit and he has too...things change?
2006-12-27 09:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its possible. I believe that sometimes some people are just meant to be. Sometimes the people that care about you the most hurt you the most. I know that makes no sense and its not the same in every case. Its possible they may have regrets about what they did to cause you pain. Did they apologize? The best thing is to talk it out.
2006-12-27 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things do change. Think of why the pain in the past. Date a bit and see what happens
2006-12-27 09:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your definition and understanding of "love" changes with time. When we experience other people's strengths and weaknesses, we may gravitate back to those we knew previously, having a new appreciation for what they were. If you were in a relationship with them before, however, I would avoid reopening old wounds.
Things do change, but people tend to hold on to painful memories so they can lash themselves or others with them later. Somewhat macabre, but true nonetheless.
2006-12-27 09:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's possible especially if the love was still there and you both shared special things. In my case it's not just 3 yrs. It's almost decade when we got back w/ each other.
2006-12-27 09:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very possible. The two of you are older and wiser, more mature than before. And this can very well happen that the same things that attracted you before have been reborn again. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-27 09:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. Date them for a while and see where it takes you.
2006-12-27 10:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋