so i waz in a bad realationship 4 3 yrs and i think ive become the jelous type.......wat should i do and what is the jelous type??
2006-12-27 08:47:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy is caused by insecurity and low self esteem. If you want to eliminate you jealous feelings you have to work on your own issues. I think I'm a good guy and the chick I'm dating is lucky to have me ,if she cheats on me or dumps me, her loss, with this attitude I don't get jealous.
2006-12-27 08:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you can do is work on getting your own head back together, being in a bad relation ship can warp your views on things. Get back to being you, rediscover yourelf, and make some positive changes in your life, and you will start attracting the right people, and you wont have to worry about being jealous.
You need to do some healing, and that takes a little bit of time. I would suggest taking sometype of class that you would enjoy, or join a group at your church, devote time to yourself, and have fun with your girlfreinds, take some classes in college, get a pet.......HEAL...then love will find you when you arent even looking for it....Dont jump back into any relationship because you are broken right now, and need some healing, you will only bring with you the hurt from the past relationship and then the jealousy will flare
God Bless you and Good Luck!
2006-12-27 08:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by michiganmommyx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't really told me how you are jealous all you said was you were the jealous type. But if you think you are jealous type then you should have more trust in your significant other.
What is the jealous type? The jealous type is the type that gets angry when your significant other has friends and they hang out but you are worried you could lose the person you love to another person, basically a sense of insecurity. Also if your significant other is hanging out all of their friends rather than spending time with you.
Perhaps you should have more trust, and let the person do what they want rather than smothering them.
2006-12-27 08:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is simply insecurity. Jealousy is the fear that someone else may be preferred over you. Jealousy is the fear that you don't hold value to the one you love. Jealousy is basically neurotic insecurity.
If you are lacking in self-esteem or feel that you aren't good enough to keep your boyfriend around, yeah, I'd say you're the jealous type.
All you can do is work on yourself. Build your self-esteem and realize your value and worth to other people. Know that when people leave you it isn't always you. It takes two to tango and half of the problem is them.
2006-12-27 08:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you consistently ask these questions:
(If he answered his phone around you)
Who were you talking to on the phone? Who was that? Who is she? Why are you talking to her? How do you know her? How long you been talking to her? Does she have a man? Do you like her? Does she like you? Have you guys been out together? Have you kissed her? Has she kissed you? Did she touch you? Have you touched her? Don't you love me?
(If you're out in public)
Did you look at her? Don't you hear me talking to you? Why you look at her? Do I have to go over there and cut her? You looking at her butt or something? Why you can't look at me? You think she better than me? I'm not good enough for you? Why you with me then? Don't you love me?
I mean I think we all know that this can go on and on and if so, then yes, you are the jealous type. You have to learn how to trust your lover and understand that men (and women) are going to look or have friends. Now I'm not saying be naive about things and just think that if you get an answer just take it and leave it but don't question everything that your lover does. When your lover starts acting strange and doing things out the ordinary, then yes, ask them what's going on and don't be excessive about it, keep your eyes open but don't go calling the show "Cheaters" or Jerry Springer. I'mma tell you like my pastor told us young adults, if their cheating, then their cheating, if not, then their not. If it's meant for you to find out, then you will. Period.
P.S. Sorry so long but I can get longwinded when it comes to questions like this.
2006-12-27 09:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by cutelashon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u were in like a bad relationship for 3 years , likee does your ex boyfriend have a girl friendd, orr what is he doingg! Becuasee iff hee does have a girlfriend thenn u might say that your a jealous type, butt right noww in this littlee storyy, noo urr nott jealous!
2006-12-27 08:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by ppriscilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jealous type is the type that gets mad when her man talks to another female, spends time with friends, etc. It takes a lot of time and effort to no be jealous. When you get angry and jealous, just try to ignore it.
2006-12-27 08:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first the jealous type is is someone who sees their ex with another person and gets jealous
second you should say that you were in a bad relationship with him and you don't want to be with him
2006-12-27 08:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by fudge 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to sit down and think about what you think you're jealous about.
2006-12-27 08:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur cute and the jealous type then pls holla at me
omg !! i take that back , look at what u said to me"money does not make u happy!!!!! u idiot!!!!! u never tell a girl that u wont marry her until ur ritch!!!!!! ull never get ritch!!!!!
try medium wage not ritch "" .. i wish i wasnt that nice to you , bye u idiot lol
2006-12-27 08:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋