I had to go to another school. I went to Junior High. When i was in Elementry School i loved a kid names Dylan. He was so funny and we could talk for hours and hours! I went to visit my elementry school and i tryed to talk to him and he got all embarrassed. I really want to be freinds atleast. He is the only guy i really concider falling in love with.
I won't let my self even like any other guy in my new Junior high because i am holding on to him. I have turned down 3 guys in 2 weeks cause i still like this kid named Dylan!
Please i am desperate for advice. HELP!!!
2006-12-27 08:42:03 · 12 answers · asked by Summers Heat723 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll continue liking him, but when a new CUTE GUY Comes around it'll be easy to forget about him, trust me. I think u like him more because of the chase, feeling like you can't have him. i've had the same problem ,i always want guys that ic nat have and i end up turning down all these other fellas. Keep yourself busy with other thoughs,trust me, there are a lto of other "Fishies in the sea".
2006-12-27 09:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ... don't take this the wrong way because I'm sure you have strong emotions for Dylan but ... you are a bit too young to know what true love is. However, I DO understand what you are feeling. I used to live in North Carolina. The last summer I spent there before my family moved to Tennessee was magical to say the least. I was in love. At least I thought I was. It was the first time I ever had those emotions for a girl and I didn't want to leave her. The first night I spent in Tennessee I cried for half the night. I felt like half of me was missing. This horrible feeling and me crying myself to sleep lasted for 5 weeks. That's a long time for a 13 year old boy. Eventually the pain eased up and then those feelings of both separation and love were replaced by a fond memory. Several years later I saw this girl again. She has several ugly tatooes, long greasy hair, she smelled of pot and her boyfriend looked like he just fell off the Hobo Train. I wish I had never seen her again because now my sweet memory was replaced my a sour reality. This boy you say you love, if he was in elementary school at the time his emotions have gone thru several changes. Girls mature faster than boys so I will not say you DIDN'T love him, you may have. The sad truth is most boys go thru so many emotional states between 10 and 20 that you'd need an emotional meter the size of Texas to keep up with them. He may still have feelings for you but maybe they are not as strong now. If he is going thru puberty, you are just out of luck. Puberty to a boy means chaios emotionally. He would be so unsure of himself that he wouldn't dare let anyone get close. Sorry to bum you out but it's better to know the truth than to have you set yourself up for a huge disappointment.
2006-12-27 16:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think Dylan likes you like before?If he got embarrassed don't take it too far.it is quite embarrassing to have someone esp. old student from home to come and visit you in school,and have all of your friends or mates looking at you like you're from a different planet.it's quite normal for people to behave that way because usually when you get a visitor at school,your mates and friends are looking out to his/her fashion style which kinda got your friend embarrassed.
However,you can't keep on thinking that he likes you if you haven't expressed your feeling to him.He may not know that you have a crush on him.tell him how you feel and then,his response will help you decide on what to do next.Good luck,girl.
2006-12-27 16:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give the other guys a chance, how do you know this Dylan guy is for you if you don't get to know other guys? Try to be sociable and enjoy your life, make lots of friends, with time, you will have your answer.
2006-12-27 16:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no chance with you and dylan then you had no reason to turn down the other people
2006-12-27 16:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may be embarrsed because hes not used 2 talking to u if he dont want to be friends or bf and gf then get on with yr life they r more ppl that u can can fall in love with + they r more ppl thats funnier than him
2006-12-27 16:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by nationwide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats hard but in personal experiences if he really likes u hell ask u but dont make the same mistake i made i turned down lots of guys cuz of the guy i like. just follow ur heart............
2006-12-27 16:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by bbyqrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will he hold on to you as u will ? if you trust him , then u should hold on to him too , if only him makes u happy , don't lose him , but if he finds another one , he doesnt deserve holding on to by anymean
2006-12-27 16:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Shoshita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do some thing more useful in your life
2006-12-27 16:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by saif6020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life is too short
2006-12-27 16:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Matt G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋