II've known this guy from graduate school for a couple of months and now we've gone out on a few dates now. He talks a lot and doesnt seem shy to tell me about pretty much anything, family, friends, old girlfriends, whatever. However, he seems pretty independant and I can't tell if he likes me with potential for more or if he just wants to see me every once in a while. How can you tell if a guy is starting to get feelings for you or if he's just having fun?
2006-12-27 08:41:00 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all, if he is open about alot of things, then he may really like you. But, if he's just talking so you understand his past or whatever, he may like you and he may not. You'll have a feeling when you know he really, truly likes you, not just looking for a booty call.
2006-12-27 08:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if this boy likes you by just being yourself around him and see how he acts if he doesn't focus on your outside appearance that doesn't mean that he doesn't admire your beaty he just trying to see the true person that you really are on the inside and thats the best boyfriend you ever can have but there is a negative opinion to those kind of guys because they can put on a front until he get you sprung you will do anything to have him so you have to play reverse psyhcology play along with the his game he think he got you all wrapped up in make the right choice GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-27 09:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by WAZUP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idont know, iknow a guy just like this, and i was crazily attracted to him. But eventually i moved on once i realized he's not the settling type.
But dont' lose hope. A few signs are : does he flirt physically? If you guys are in a grouop of friends, when he talks does he look mostly at you? Does he seem to remember little things that you've told him in past conversations?
he might just want to be a friend though. =(
2006-12-27 09:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep enjoying the company for a while, and be alert for little clues. Such as being a gentleman. If he opens doors, or lets you have the last piece of bacon, then maybe he's trying to get you to like him, in a modest, underhanded kind of way.
If you're impatient, just ask him. If he acts like it makes him uncomfortable, do something funny to ease the tension. Grab your breasts and say, "Everyone wants these."
2006-12-27 08:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by lejosmcoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get this guy in a intimate setting and see what happends. Like, stay in a rent a movie, and turn off all the lights and cuddle up. Or go out to dinner and have a few drinks just to loosen up. It looks like he likes you because you guys keep going out, but its in public settings, get the guy alone and see how the chemistry works.
2006-12-27 08:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by cesarsauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy yourself when your with him. He'll let you know if he's interested in more. Or go the other route and straight up ask him how he feels, but that's just me. Life is too short to play the passive role. Good luck.
2006-12-27 08:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by water.bratz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't he is looking for a Booty Call!!!
2006-12-27 08:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him
2006-12-27 08:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAND NEXT TO HIM,IF HE GETS A WOODY HE LIKES YOU
2006-12-27 08:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋