It hav been 1year with the guy i love.But he keeps on changing himself by time.We once had a breakup and now we are together again.I cried alot because he hurted me alot in my life.Now the problem with him iz that from some dayz he stopped telling me that he loves me.He stopped being romantic with me.He never makes me a call.We study together in same school,and i m just 15yrs,he talks to other girls i never told him anything.He behaves very rude to me.He stopped sharing his life with me.Tell me wat magic should i play for him 2 love me more.I gave him evrything which he asked me for.Inreturn he gave me tears.My frends tell me 2 leave him but i dont want to leave him.What should evn i explain him.Pllllllzzzzz help!!!
2006-12-27 07:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by sweetie pie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many guyz proposed me & i said no to all of them.I evn broke my frendship with those guys bcoz of him.He did not wish me on my b'day i nevr told him nything.Wat else cud i do?
2006-12-27 10:32:05 · update #1
You are too young to know what TRUE love is. When I was your age, I had thought I would die if my boyfriend left me, but I did not. Time can heal all wounds. And do you know what? I found my one true love eventually, and it was the best years of my life. You have to accept the fact that yjr guy does not really care for you, because if he does, he would not want to hurt you. When one loves a person, one will always think of the beloved first. So forget about him and move on. It will hurt at first - terribly hurt, but you will survive. believe me... Draw yourself away from sadness and make yourself prettier and more alive. Improve your personality by looking at the positive things in life and concentrating on your potentials. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that you despair over his loss. Show him that his indifference does not matter to you. It is his loss, not yours. Now come out of your shell and start your life all over again. You can do it!
2006-12-27 13:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear!!!!!!!!
I really think that u should concentrate on ur studies. As u said this person is very rude with u, u have given him everything but he gave only tears then why u want to be with such type of guy who likes to see u crying. I sincerely think that u should leave him for ur better future. U have to face lots and lots of things in future and if u keep crying for all the things then u cannot be happy in life. n e wez just think he never deserved u. U can have more loving and caring guy in future but for now just look after ur studies and enjoy life with all ur friends and be happy for those who like u and cant see tears in ur eyes ok..............
Keep :-))
Good luck and all the best
2006-12-28 00:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him if he loves u he Will understand that how bad Ur feeling right know and if he don't loves will continue being the same
Ur just 15yrs girl u got concentrate on Ur studies in this u cant be in series relationship box u r not so mature to understand right n wrong about relationship listen he is not being nice to u live him not asking to live him forever but take a break for sometimes u will realise is he worthy for Ur love or not
god bless you
2006-12-28 02:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear God's child you are still unmatured for all this things.
Just forget him and concentrate on your studies, if you study well you will get more then you ask in your dreams.
Keep just a freindship with everyone and love every one as they are human. Do not push to much to get what your mind is demanding feed the mind with knowledge from your school books.
God Bless You.
2006-12-27 21:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the general view of a Guy ,
I can tell you that he is not intrested in you and i think he has got all that he wants from you and now that he has got all that things he is neglecting you aas now you are having nothing which intrests you (think about it ) , So i give you you a gud advice to leave him alone and get on with your life , I mean you get your elf another good boy friend who is good to you and is also loyal
2006-12-29 01:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by KRIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sweetie pie,
being a guy according to me it looks like the guy is not intrested in you. give him some more time some space of his own may be he might be confused about the relationship. Youu must just support him in what he is doing even if he says he doesn't love you. Don't feel bad. give some time to your relationship and above all you are just 15 and in school. there is a long way in life
2006-12-27 17:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Prashant P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai sweeti you are good and the you are doing is bad. you better leave him and concentrate in studies.you will get a best co in your future. this is not the right time to decide about your life.study well.
2006-12-28 00:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by aarthy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off a little bit and see what he does.. maybe if he realizes that he might lose you it would renew something... or it might tell you alot about what is going on... all in all i'm sure your better than that ... i suggest to move on but its all about what you feel.
2006-12-27 21:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Nick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to do love!but ya you are in true love
let me help you in ur problem
i think he is playing game wid u .love him bt remember dont fulfill all ALL his needs. u shoud tell him how u love hm
2006-12-27 17:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by aman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gone into it rather prematurely. Better concentrate on your studies.
2006-12-27 21:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Truth ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋