I am just wondering if it's ok with all women out there if their boyfriends or husbands go to a strip bar.
2006-12-27 07:23:25 · 32 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well for one thing she shouldn't get upset where he goes actually. she should trust him. but the guys should also know better if he have a girlfriend he shouldn't be going to that place. honesty and respect is the key.
2006-12-27 07:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by xoluckyduckxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of my boyfriends have ever went to a strip bar while they dated me. They said they didn't need to see those women when they had me right there. Most guys who go to strip bars will go to look at the women and imagine that their wives look like that. I have actually tried to get my husband to go with one of his friends but he said he wasn't interested in seeing any other woman and I wasn't even there when it was said. Thank you and good luck.
2006-12-27 07:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some women might be ok with this, while most wouldn't. I would think that if it's a regular thing it would be worse.
I don't know about women, but if my GF went to a chippendale club for a bachelor party or they brought strippers to a friends house it would be okay, if she goes regularily I would be upset.
2006-12-27 07:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he goes once a year for a birthday party or bachelor party, I wouldn't mind...if he goes once a week, he is obsessed with physical appearance and probably compares you to the dancers, who work out every day and starve themselves to look that way. Plus, he's blowing money that he could be saving, for a future with you.
2006-12-27 07:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just looking, then no, you should not get upset. There is no different between that and porn in his mind. If you want, you should go with him and check it out.
On the flip side, alot of these places offer a little extra on the side, so he may be going for some Nookie. That's an entirely different subject and one you'll have to look into yourself.
2006-12-27 07:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of my girlfriends comes to strip bars with me, and after she has a few drinks, she gets lap dances.
2006-12-27 07:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea I think it is fine that they go but just have him take a shower, brush his teeth, and throw his clothes in the wash before he even touches you because those places are scanky and gross and you don't want to be touching something that the girls got on him.
2006-12-27 07:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering. Are we talking about people who love each other, or just having a physical relationship?
I think you know the answer to this one.
2006-12-27 07:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by frenzee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would but if your guy knows how much you hate what he does and if he loves you enough he won't do it. i didn't like it when my boyfriend smoked (he did every now and then)and i told him also b/c i was allergic to it so he didn't smoke again and even if his friends got around me and were smoking he tell them not to or to go somewhere else. also i didn't like him partying b/c i didn't know if he was okay so he only went to parties as long as i was with him. I really appreciated what he did for me but i never showed it so thank him when he does stuff like that and do it in return.
2006-12-27 07:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is fine! But you can't touch at strip bars but you can at home so it is kind of pointless.
2006-12-27 07:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by star13769 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋