When I was going through his pics I saw her pic. It was his girl friend way back in high school. She is blond, has big boobs and is chubby. I am asian, I have small boobs and I am skinny. He threw the pic in the garbage. Somehow it bothers me. He said she could have been a nice girl but he tells me he is glad he didn't marry her. He was disgusted in dating women after he went out with her. So for over 10 years he didn't date anyone until he met me. Ironicaly his ex and I have the same name. And every now and then he does talk about her and tells me he is glad that he met me and didn't marry her. He found out that she is divorced now. I don't know why every time he talks about her it bothers me. Am I jealous?
2006-12-27 07:19:08 · 20 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chill he loves you and wants only you if after ten years he final opend up to some one and you are that some dont push him away
2006-12-27 07:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that your jealous because My gilrfriend saw my ex-girlfriend and she said that she felt quite jealous because she looked much more nicer and had some big boobs. So yes it could be that you are jealous, but if this keeps happening you should tell him and say that you don't like him talking about her. Or if you don't tell him and it still happens then you are very jealous of her and you would need to tell your fionce
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2006-12-27 15:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your no jealous just insecure. The past is the past live for today and all the tomorrows. If he says he is glad that met you and didn't marry her believe him. When it comes to stuff like this guys seem to speak the truth. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-12-27 15:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself, when I'm in a relationship, I would like the person to focus on me. However, I am a divorcee myself, and my ex-wife unfortunately continues to harangue me at every opportunity, so I do talk about her alot. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He learned things from previous relationships.
Some people genuinely still care for their ex. Many of them were not the ones who decided to call it off, but some of those even still care but knew it wasn't the best relationship they needed. I think you should discuss your concerns with him. If he really does care for you, he will respect your wishes and uneasiness and diminish if not abolish mention of previous loves.
2006-12-27 15:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being jealous! It's natural, but you need to be careful to keep it under control. If you become to jealous and possessive, you will drive him away.
You have no reason to believe that he will go back to this girl. He is in love with you! I'm sure that if it took him ten years to move on, he still has some feelings for her, but she was his first love, you have to expect that.
I think you should just let it go. Love him and enjoy your life with him. Good luck!
2006-12-27 15:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes mainly talking bad about her then I def. wouldn't even worry about it. It's been 10 years, its not a big deal at all. He's said over and over that hes glad he didn't marry her and that he's with you.. that should tell you right there that it shouldn't be a concern.
2006-12-27 15:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-27 15:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
envious you are however, no reason to be. he loves you so take a chill pill sweetheart as you have him and he has you. if he wanted her he would be with her!!! sometimes we tend to get that way. maybe insecurity or some other types of jealousy can be harm-full. relax and go make love. fun in the sun or where ever? 10 years she must have hurt him bad. don't pry as he has chosen you for all the right reasons. don't spoil it now. thanks
2006-12-27 15:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur jealous.. and that's normal..
even if you two didnt have the same name, you will also be bothered .. as you say, she was the last lady he dated, so he must remember her ..
but he keeps on mentioning her, this is not really nice from him.. just ask him to stop mentioning her to you!!
2006-12-27 15:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it's normal. i sometimes get a bit jealous of my babes ex just because at times i might be felling a bit down but once i get over it i KNOW for a FACT that I AM WAY BETTER THAN HER no matter what. he always lets me know that i am the one and only true love so thats all that counts
2006-12-27 15:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋