2006-12-27 07:18:23 · 63 answers · asked by ariadne n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is cheating then he is your boyfriend and the girl he's cheating with's boyfriend and so on.....Dump him and get you a guy that just wants you and noone else.
2006-12-27 07:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's good that you love him a lot. But it takes two people to build a relationship. If he cheats on you, do you think he really loves you? If he does "love you" he would've never cheated on you or thought about it. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? There is someone out there that can give all the love you give your current boyfriend. It's all a matter of letting go, and taking a risk...
2006-12-27 07:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by maderline_socute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A got a big King Kong size no to put on you doorstep. Woman you need to get some self-respect about you. Once maybe but more than that you gotta start making with the packing and leaving. You keep this up and soon he will be giving you the back of his hand and telling you it's love.
2006-12-27 07:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not a chance! Maybe if my long term partner did it once I might for the sake of a very good long term relationship and if we were going through a rough patch forgive and move on but not a second time. I think that he needs to respect you more and you need to respect yourself more. I don't know you but I'm sure you deserve better than that. Move on and make way for someone who will treat you properly. When you find a 'good' man you will wonder what you ever saw in your current boyfriend! :-)
2006-12-27 07:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Prawnsize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks he's got you wrapped around his dirty finger. Apparently, he does if you have choosen to put up with his cheating ways. Honey, he doesn't love you. Get back your self respect and ditch that dirtbag. You were not born to be his fool or doormat. Let him know that he has cheated on you for the last time. Now dont fall for his sweet lying promises that he will change any more. You walk away with your head lifted up high. dont cry, dont argue and dont look back. Someone better is awaiting you!
2006-12-27 07:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I stay? No I would leave right away. But I have always looked for a reason to leave a relationship. I think you should ask yourself who has the issue. Why is he cheating? Depending on the reason, you may find the best answer for you.
2006-12-27 07:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by slim-n-shaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is going to continue to cheat on you because you allow him to do so. As long as you don't care about yourself enough he will continue to cheat on you. I have been cheated on before and I dumped him. I have high self-esteem and know that I deserve better than that, and I found better. Good luck to you and I hope you stop allowing him to treat you like a doormat.
2006-12-27 07:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people dont realise that love is blind you must understand that you are loving someone who doesnt love you. but like they say we have to burn our fingers before we learn not to do it again in my opinion if someone cheats they were looking for somthing more but for a 2, and 3rd and 4th........ time they dont love you anymore guys who do this can never learn to open their heart fully to anyone try and understand that he is just using you. you sound like a kind hearted person and you letting someone have that for free and letting someone take that whenever he feels like it and when he doesnt he is actually stealing that from you cause he knows youl just go back to him i know it will be hard but u actualy have to draw a line either he stops cheating (which will naturallynot happen) or its over guys think with the wrong head when they about to cheat and they will continue to make this mistake over and over again i hope you find a way to let go good luck angel!!!!!
2006-12-27 07:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO because you deserve someone that won't do that to you. If he really cared for you he wouldn't hurt you like that. If you stay with him it is because you have no self respect and deep down you are too scared to leave this guy because you think no one else will want you. I know its scary and it will hurt to leave him but you owe it to yourself to find a good guy (he'll be hard to find if you are stuck with a cheating loser). I do understand where you are comming from, I would have stayed when with the cheater when I was younger but now I know that I am way too good for a loser like that!
2006-12-27 07:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kellidoscope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is to leave. You lover him....but it really sounds like he doesnt love you with the way he is treating you. Same thing has happend to me. It is actually happening to me right now. It's really f*cking hard to be without him---you will think about what he is doing---who he is with---but what helps with that, at least for me, is to remember all the things he did that were ugly to me. How I put up with it for no reason at all. Look, I dont know who you are---but i can already tell you that you dont deserve what he has done----NO ONE DOES...so girl, be better than what he thinks you are--and leave the guy...and message me-and I will give you my number to talk bc I know what you are going through and it helps to have a friend.
2006-12-27 07:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by LadyAlysse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with him. From experience, I can tell you, its not good to stay with a guy that cheats on you. He'll just keep on doing it with other girl(s) and you'll end up being heartbroken more then enough times. Find a different guy, one that will love you a lot and will stay loyal to you.
2006-12-27 07:23:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋