if i dont think im that much of a good looking guy in your experience am i undersetimating myself or am i just ok but have a brilliant heart to compensate for not having 100% brilliant looks?
2006-12-27 07:15:51 · 18 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No such things as ugly ducklings, just swans who don't know it yet. You are definitely underestimating yourself. In my experience, girls like all different sorts of guys, just like guys like all different sorts of girls. You may not think you are brilliant looking, but there could well be a lot of girls who think you are.
I would suggest that you work on your self-esteem. Dwell upon your positive qualities in your mind, and do this often. WHAT DO YOU THINK MAKES YOU A GOOD PERSON, AND FIRST CLASS BOYFRIEND MATERIAL?
Do this often enough, and your mind will pick up the new 'messages' you are sending it. Instead of thinking you are mediocre, you will begin thinking you are hot stuff, and whatever you put into your mind will get 'recycled' as feelings and behaviour. Most importantly of all, SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-CONFIDENCE. Girls love guys with positive self-regard.
You have also noticed that you have a 'brilliant heart.' That is a great start and you are half way there already. Add a bit more self-worth and you will be quite a catch! Good luck.
2006-12-27 07:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer here! Depends on the actual women and how unattractive you really are.
For some women personality makes up for looks but others wonder how they can possibly get sexual with an ugly man - no matter how kind etc he is.
If and when you find the right woman she will be a very lucky lady to have a man with a brilliant heart!
Good luck x
2006-12-27 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may be underestimating yourself or just lack confidence. Underestimating is OK, but lacking confidence is something you'll have to work on. If you have a brilliant heart and are generally sincere, that will win out over looks-- at least in my opinion. Yes, there should be some chemistry; but chemistry alone does not a relationship make.
2006-12-27 07:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, I'm an insecure guy too! Believe me, women will appreciate the reward of getting to know you. And if they can't, then they're hopelessly shallow and would just let you down in other ways later on. I hope you find someone!
2006-12-27 07:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i prefer a brilliant heart , no matter what the person looks like, so, don't even think about this issue, women are different from men, we look for the innerself
2006-12-27 07:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by 000 000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 11:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude all girls have different tastes .... trust me i have a bf whom everyone else thinks is well ugly but i don`t care and it`s the same way for them 2. Sum girl has gotta be attracted 2 u don`t worry!
2006-12-27 07:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Candi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't see what you look like, but girls who look ONLY at looks are not girls who you would want to date, anyways.
Remember this: Looks fade when you get old and gray. If you've got something to take its place, you are going to be invaluable to a woman.
2006-12-27 07:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i'd class ur statement as
Underselling urself.
take it from me b a man.
b assertive, strong in character and never say anything u don't mean.
try meditation and give urself a good talking 2.
& i'm spoken 4, sorry.
2006-12-27 07:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? There are so many girls out there who would be attracted to you. Anybody who judges anyone from how someone looks are too shallow to be in a relationship with anyone.
2006-12-27 07:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋