so..im not allowed to have a bf....but i said yes when he asked me out...my bf knows im not allowed....what should i do...i dont want to break up with him...i like him.....how could i get my parents to let me have a bf....with out finding out i already do?
2006-12-27 07:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are u allowed to go out with a group of friends? My parents had the same rule last year but if u get ur bf to pick u up for a "group" date let hime meet ur rents just tell them all of your friends are meeting ya''ll there or if they won't go for that get one of ur friends to wait in the car or maybe come to the door w/ him. Once he comes to ur house and talks to ur parents a few times maybe ur parents will get to like him and start trusting ya'll to go out together alone.
2006-12-27 07:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by mb_polkadot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ask your parents this:
Can I get ready to date?(pre-date)
Can I walk home with a boy?
Can I meet a boy for a soda?
can I do things in a group, like a daytime movie
until I AM ready to date?
can I go roller skating with a boy?
can I go to youth group get-together?
cut this out and keep this in your pocket .... then... just ask ........ I let all 5 of my daughters pre -date and every one of them turned out to be nice young ladies.
Went to collage, married and I am even going to have a granddaughter in February. This is what your mom and dad want. They want to be sure you have a safe,fun time until they are handing you off to your husband. I am old fashioned yes...and was pretty firm with all my daughters and ..they all could pre -date until they were 16 and went on a car date. Hope this helps hon.... Never go anywhere without your mom and dads knowledge. EVER. If they cant trust you now they cant trust you to pre-date either...so you might not be ready...yet.
no boy is worth losing trust
byeeeeeeeee! good luck
2006-12-27 07:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the mistake of sneaking around with one guy when i was younger. We never actually went out but my mom didn't approve of him. In the end my mom found out and things were rocky for a while. Now i've been honest with my mom and gained her trust back. I tell her about almost everything going on in my life with guys. Just bring it up, sometimes having the talk about rules and dating feels good...after it's done of course... getting up the courage to do that is hard. but once you've done that they might be more open and realize that yeah you're interested and maybe should give you a little space. good luck and keep your head on. =)
2006-12-27 07:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Meeeeeeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your parents said no, then maybe you should listen to them if thats possible, if not maybe tell your parents that you like a guy and ask if you can invite him around so that they can meet and talk with him 1st
2006-12-27 07:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Calais 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT YOU'RE GOING TO THE MOVIES WITH A FRIEND-WHICH IS NOT LYING, IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT. OR MAYBE YOU COULD CONVICE THEM THAT DATING IS HEALTHY.
2006-12-27 07:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Safiera 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with your parents, tell them.
2006-12-27 07:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋