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Question

i cant do nothing my mom wont let me go no where and its winter break.tha last time i went somewhere was 2 school. i dont know what to do...i feel like im bout to loose my mind..all i do is get on tha computer and sit all day. i think im tha only 15 year old girl that is not on punishment and cant go no where.. what should i do? i feel like i being held back from life....how can i tell my mom that im old enough to go out and have some fun???

i cant go to the movies or nothing...if i go outside i get in trouble....she tells me im ungratefull...she also thinks im going to get pregnant but i know better than that

Answer 1

Is your mum punishing you for something you did?

If not, ask her if you can have some friends over. If she meets your friends and they seem okay to her, I am sure, she'll let you hang out with them.

Maybe your mum is concerned for you. There are a lot of dangers out there so always come home at the time you agreed or call her to let her know that you will be late. Tell her where you are going and with whom. Share with her what you did when you come home, so she knows that you are capable of taking care of yourself.

Good luck!

Answer 2

What kind of fun are you talking about? Does your Mom let you go out for walks, play in the snow, ice-skating, to movies?
You could ask your Mom if she has any ideas what a 15-year-old can do away from home.
She was once 15. Ask her what she did during the winter break.
Does your Mom know your friends? If not, ask her if you can invite one or more of them over in the afternoon. Maybe watch a movie, have some snacks.
Once your Mom knows your friends, she may be more comfortable letting you go out with them.

Answer 3

Be happy your in the house and not at work when I was 15 (i'm 22 now) my mother had a daycare and when I got out of school my father or my brothers would pick me up and take me to the daycare to work and that's what I did every day including any school breaks and all summer long so at least your not surrounded by bad kids but don't lash out she might just be trying to keep you from going out there and getting into trouble like getting pregnant because you know thats almost a fashion now.

Answer 4

Seriously, stay home and work on your grammar. That may help you succeed in school after break is over. Sorry to be harsh. Just trying to help.

Ask your mom why she won't allow you to go out. If your requests are reasonable, she should let you. If you want to stay out late or go somewhere inappropriate, that may be why she's saying no. Ask her if you can hang out at a friend's house. Would she say no to that?

Good luck and I hope you have some fun for the rest of your break.

Answer 5

You need to talk to your mom about trust. She has to learn to trust you. If she doesn't trust you, you need to ask why. If it's something you did previously then you will have to try to earn her trust again. If it is just that she is fearful for you, then you have to explain that you know what you are doing re boys and that you have no intention if having sex or sleeping with anyone. You need to explain how you are feeling and how she is making you feel. Trying to tell her that everyone else goes out will achieve nothing, but explaining that you have no intention of letting either her, or you, down and meaning it, should go a long way. I speak from experience! Good luck.

Answer 6

Maybe your mom takes it to a bit of an extreme but I can understand part of her reasoning. 15 is about the age where many kids can go astray - Ive seen it happen too many times. At that age kids start becoming friends with lots of people and wanting to go out at night to parties and things and they very quickly change from being good kids to teens who start going to too many parties- getting drunk, fooling around etc. Your mom probably wants to protect you from that fate and probably a little bit wants to have you stay close to her in an emotional way. Try to rationalize going to the mall or to a movie or something during the daytime with one or two friends....that should be safe enough. Dont push too hard to go out to parties and that because I can tell you its not as much fun as it looks.

Answer 7

ask your mom for a one on one girl talk. Don't be pushy or snotty. Be honest!! Tell her how you feel and ask her why she does what she does. She may have her reasons or something may have happened to her at your age that she is overprotecting you for now. The only way to resolve this is by talking with her.

Answer 8

♥ ♥ ask your mom to explain why you cant go anywhere, and then maybe you can find a compromise that will make both of you happy. ♥ ♥