Been dating since early December. He did not invite me to his birthday party. He did come over for Xmas, late and did not bring me a gift. I did get him one but hid it when I saw he was empty handed. Now he has advised that he is going to a friend's NYE party and he would like to get together with me earlier in the weekend. Does it sound like he is not interested in me to you?
When we are together it is so great. We talk all the time and email. Super great.
Why the blow off for the holidays, though?
I am bummed because I thought that this year I would have someone to share a NYE kiss with.
Guess not. How would you handle this?
2006-12-27 07:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I'm reading is that you don't seem all that important to him...he has "better" plans for his time....so why are you waiting around? No one deserves to be alone on NYE -- so, you need to go to a friends party, and look for someone else to kiss at midnight, cause if you wait for this guy to grow up enough to appreciate you, you WILL be waiting a LONG time....
2006-12-27 07:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by necessat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not too late for that kiss. Find you another date for the weekend and tell "Mr. Casual", you might talk to him around Martin Luther King Day (if you're available).
He's not as interested in you and you are in him. Better calm down before you really get hurt.
2006-12-27 15:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's more interested in just being friends with you not anything romantic. If he's inviting you to go places or coming to see you late, it's almost as if he's just doing it because he's afraid you'll get upset if he doesn't show up.
I'd move on and just let this guy stay single.
2006-12-27 15:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by GrayMatters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be depressed just as I am now. The same exact thing is happening to me. I have a hard time not thinking it's all me. But then, I'm burdened with a tendency to think that way. Trying to break away from that and let him do what he wants.
2006-12-27 15:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Terrigrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating each other exclusively, then yes I'd be offended. Are you more into him than he's into you? I guess you could tell him that you're hurt and that you had hoped to be together more over the holidays. Gauge his reaction. He may not realize how you feel.
2006-12-27 15:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, this is not the best boyfriend. It matters though. Do you love him, or just kinda have a crush on him? If you care alot about him, talk to him. Don't be angry or yell, just show that you're dissapointed. If he's not a huge part of your life, you're obviously not a huge part of his. Stop it.
2006-12-27 15:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you. If he was, he would have shown up at Christmas with a gift in hand. Time to move on.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-27 15:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this sounds like you are the other woman on the side never center stage. Maybe you should just forget about this one and move on.
2006-12-27 15:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by spitfin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open. It sounds like he's on the fence as to whether or not he wants to persue you full force.
2006-12-27 15:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
even if you had only dated a short whole he should have gift for you.
you the other woman
2006-12-27 15:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by adonnis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋