ok so my b/f's mom thinks i'm going to trap him into marrying me by getting myself pregnant and stuff and i wouldn't do that to anyone ever besides i'm not even thinking about marriage yet it's only been 9 months so yeah what should i say or do?
2006-12-27 06:48:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should just be yourself and not worry about it or pleasing her at all.
After all your going out with her son not her.
You don't have to try to please anyone but you and him at the moment and may I advise that you take all the precautions possible so that nothing does happen.
Good luck and I hope you both have a great relationship
Sounds like the MIL needs time on her own to do things other than think of you .
MYOB Mind your own business is a card that should be made for people like that I am sorry you are in the middle of it.
2006-12-27 06:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your boyfriend are having a sexual relationship and his mother is aware of that fact she is worried for a good reason. Are you using protection? If no please consider your health and the possibility that pregnancy is a major possibility. If yes you still run the risk of an unwanted or unplanned for pregnancy. Sometimes those little buggers still get through!! LOL.
If your not even having a sexual relationship...
I don't think that it is you in particular she has a problem with. Some mothers just have a hard time seeing there sons with any girl/woman. Letting go is really difficult. Remember SHE has been the most important woman in his life for all of his life so far.
I think it is wonderful and very mature that you have the character to show so much concern for this. Show her this. Or... just ask her if she is willing to sit down and talk with you about your feelings. I hope she appreciates the fact that you are a direct and mature young woman who cares enough about herself and her son and her opinion that you are willing to be open and honest with her. I think she will!!
Good Luck! You have a very lucky young man! I hope he sees this!
I think she just wants the two of you to make smart responsible decisions. Becoming a parent should be a decision not a consequence of irresponsible behavior.
Happy Holidays!! I wish my son would meet a wonderful young woman like you.
2006-12-27 15:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman sounds less mature than you are and you're obviously younger than her. Sounds like a family that i would, for the most part stay away from. There are some moms that are drama queens. If i were you, since people like that are usually hard to have an adult coversation with, i would tell the boyfriend to talk with him mom and ask him to talk to her about why she thinks such awefull things about you. It is his mom and his responsibility to try to get things to work between the two of you.
This, again, is assuming you havent done something to piss off the mom or hurt the b/f
2006-12-27 15:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by lindsay g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-27 14:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do. She is just looking out for her little guy. Some mom's are never happy and some learn to Love ya. Just keep being your charming self and hoope it works out.
2006-12-27 14:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by sassssy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not important how hid mother thinks, u should make clear how does ur boyfriend think. besides, is he a mother-lover? cuz it'll be dangerous if he is after u guyz get married....anyway it takes two people to form a relationship not three people!!!
2006-12-27 14:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by monroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out what your plans are like you posted her. After that it is none of her business (assuming your over 18!!).
2006-12-27 14:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with her and say what you just told me and also tell her that you love he son
good luck with everything you deside to do in life
happy hoiladays!!
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2006-12-27 14:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by toniann n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of ur bf moms :) evil hahahhaha LOL
dont say anything
2006-12-27 14:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what your plans are coz it seems like your bf is trying to find an excuse to ruin your relationship.
2006-12-27 15:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋