my ex, broke up wit me 2 weeks ago,is almost 2 months that i hvnt seen him coz he moved 2 da suburbs,anyway i always bring our relationship up so we can have another chnace,and he tell mes that he still has feelings 4 me,i do too.but he wants to wait 2 see me in person to really know if he wants 2 be with me or not,he wants to see my face reaction,eye contact with one another because we hvnt seen each other when we were together and then 2 weeks ago he broke up wit me,well friday will be 2 weeks,he is gonna come visit me this friday,and he said to wait and talk about our relationship till then.what do i do.should i wait? im scared?
2006-12-27 06:47:16 · 33 answers · asked by Curiouz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel you're pain.i use to date this one guy for 2 months. and he broke up with me because he was confused and everything.
but it seems like he still wanna be with you. but he can't because maybe you guys barely see each other. well when he visit you act calm, don't show him you're scared. and when he brings the conversation about the relationship tell him how you feel. he might feel the same way. well i hope you and your ex woke things out. =]
2006-12-27 06:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by xoluckyduckxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no, any irrational behavior like that from a guy means there's another girl in the picture. Sounds like he is tryen to be slick. He may be trying to set it up so he has two gfs. Or, he may have gone for another girl and failed. Either way, he's trying to pull a fast one. If you decide to take him back, which you shouldn't, but if you do, make him earn it, don't just give it back. Something isn't right!
2006-12-27 06:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's putting a lot of pressure on you to say he wants to see your "face reaction" and "eye contact". I think if he -really- was concerned about those things or thinking rationally, he wouldn't have mentioned that to you because obviously you're going to be obsessed with it when you do see him. Honestly, sounds like he found something else, it didn't work out, and now he's trying to see if he still likes you. Not really promising but I would just meet him, be as natural as possible, and if it doesn't work, it wasn't really meant to be.
2006-12-27 06:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long were u guys dating? wait till friday and talk to him, but if u guys really dont click again, then let it go. long distance relationships are a b*tch!! u said u didnt see each other when u were together? why do u wanna be with him if thats the case...i mean, u didnt see him then, and now he's moved away? boys are too complicated! heh good luck!!!
2006-12-27 06:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to control the situation and the relationship. There are two people involved in a relationship and you cannot control the other person. You will have to wait and see what he says when you talk. One way or the other... you will live. You will either work it out... or break up for good. Either way.... you will live. Don't be so histrionic about it.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-27 06:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait??? Yeah Right, a man honestly does not love you nor have feelings for you if he has to see you first. Beauty is within, and most of all your personality and your actions of love and emotion should be the reason he need not to see you in person. That facial expression stuff is pure BULLSHIT!
2006-12-27 06:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over the guy. he's using you for his purposes only. when he is away from you, he wants to dip into the cookie jar and sample the flavors. but he may not want to get rid of you totally because he doesn't want to find himself without any. don't let him use you like that girl, trust me, been there, done that. all it will get you is a lot of waiting around for him while he is out eating his cookies while you sit and wait. life is to short with to many men in this world. hope it works out for ya.
2006-12-27 06:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by melissa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old motto says, "Be prepared." Write down a list of things you want to discuss and go from there. If he comes up with some line like, "It's not you, it's me." Then be glad he broke it off with you because, he's right. It's NOT you.
2006-12-27 06:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Terrigrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eyes tell everything about how a person really feels that's why they call eyes "The windows to the soul". If you really love him you'll agree to wait and meet him. If you don't then call him, let him know and don't waste HIS time.
2006-12-27 07:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by katriana30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait until this friday. Hope things work out for you the way you want them too.
But if they don't work out, there is plenty of guys in the world.
We girls don't have much of a problem finding a man. so good luck hope things work out for you.
2006-12-27 06:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by ash84102 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋