I have an ex boy friend and he wants to go back out and he keeps calling me @ night and i am trying to sleep./
how do i get him to stop? i have a boy friend already.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 06:36:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him you're not interested and you're with someone else...
2006-12-27 06:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to control his actions, but you can defintely control your response. If you have caller ID screen your calls and stop answering his calls. Otherwise, unplug the phone. Eventually (and hopefully) he'll get the message. Your other option is to let your boyfriend answer the phone and see what happens, although it may not be fair to the current boyfriend to put him in the middle of the situation.
2006-12-27 06:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the phone number or turn the phone off at night. Do not answer the phone, anytime, he is calling. He will get the idea.
2006-12-27 06:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully this is what you do.
Here are some suggestions:
1.Tell him you got a bf
2.Call the phone company and block him
3.Change your number
4.Tell your new bf that your old bf is bothering you
5.if you wanna be mean say"Back off or else"
but don't say the or else part
You can say you'll find out if you keep calling so back off
2006-12-27 06:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Turn off the ringer
2. Block his number (service available through phone company)
3. Let him know that if he calls again, you will call the police and have him charged with harassement.
4. Let your boyfriend answer!
2006-12-27 06:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you blatently tell him to get a life, then you block his number... if that does not work get him for harrassment. You have to play the game in the opposite direction in which he plays it. DON'T answer when he calls/texts. DON'T give in to any of his wishes/bribes/commands, etc... DON'T stoop to his level. Be happy with your life the way it is and keep moving forward. If you allow him to bring you down you are just giving in to him which is what he wants. Thats how men gain strength to control women, they know what to say to make us fall straight down to our knees. Be strong!
Good luck...
2006-12-27 06:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by soinluv04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the ringer. If you can't do that, a properly placed whistle blown as loud as possible in his ear can sometimes work too.
IF that fails, try writing him a letter, sending it certified mail so that you know he got it, and explain your feelings. He's just doing this to get to you. If you need to, get a PPO. That should keep him off your back.
2006-12-27 06:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering the phone, don't even pick up to say stop calling. If that doesn't work block his number.
2006-12-27 06:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some Phones have a restrict feature on them (at least my Razr does) & u can restrict that call and everytime that # calls it will go straight 2 voicemail & u won't hear it ring.
2006-12-27 06:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him stop calling or ill sew for the charge on none sleeping
2006-12-27 06:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Hollister Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop...that you have a new boyfriend. If he doesn't listen, tell him that you will have him up on harassment charges. Or, let your new boyfriend answer the late night calls. That will take care of it!
2006-12-27 06:39:25 · answer #11 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋