I have a friend he is such a sweethart and i have had a crush on him since before we developed our close friendship. over the summer it turned into a friends with benefits situation and he doesnt seem to realize how strongly i feel for him, he always mentions other girls and how easy he is and it bothers me but i cant confront him, i figure the easiest way would be to break his heart badly, but how can i do that, just to let him see how great i am in his life and for him to want me as much as i want him.
2006-12-27 06:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by ladymorena05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, so you have strong feelings for him, but you want to hurt him?
A friend with benefits is the only way you can be a benefit to a guy like him. You need to get right with yourself first. You don't intentionally hurt the ones you love and yet that's how you want to start a relationship. Seek therapy as soon as possible.
2006-12-27 06:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him how you feel instead of breaking his heart. If you don't tell him you are always going to wonder what might have been. If he doesn't feel the same way about you then you have to break off your friends with benefits relationship and just be friends before you wind up getting really hurt. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 06:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best and only bet is to break it off with him completely, and to tell him why--assuming he asks.
If that doesn't do the trick, then you never had a chance in the first place.
It's the hard thing to do, but any other action you take will only hurt YOU more, sooner or later, and probably not do anything to make him want to be exclusive with you.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-27 06:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking his heart is not the answer. Perhaps you can talk with him about how you feel. How else will he know that you have strong feelings for him. If he cannot accept that, then you'd be best to move on to someone who will treat you with respect...
2006-12-27 06:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should just tell how deep your relationship with him.What you should do is call him up one night an tell him u love or liked him way before yall became friends. Wait and see what happens
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2016-10-06 02:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cross your legs.
2006-12-27 06:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋