My ex b/f was really upset when we broke up, but what he said really hurt and I left him standing there.
A month later(yesterday) he sent me an e-mail with a list of everything he did wrong. Even little things like his shoe was untied on such and such date. He says he misses me and thinks of me 24/7. I miss him and feel horrible. I want to take him back. Is this all a trap to get me to take him back?? Do I respond??
We were together for two years. He says he did so much wrong(really only a few major things) that he wishes he could go back and fix them.
He really feels bad and I want to take him back but my friend says that boys use this to trick girls into taking them back.
I loved him, he loved me, and we had a gr8 relationship. We went thru the trama of me being raped, him losing family, and the joys of our relationship. We broke up b/c my friend told me he was cheating but after I found out he wasn't.
2006-12-27 06:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him take him back,especially because it was your best friends lies that broke you up in the first place
2006-12-27 06:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's realy upt oy ou. Do yout hink you can fix the problem taht broke up two up? Not the cheating part but whatever else lead to you believing he cheated on you.
If nothing see to be the problem then I'd get back with him. Both of you have to change though. Change for the better.
2006-12-27 14:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by nyy35moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what it seems like he's been there for you in the past and you have been ther for him. So why not be together and help each other and grow more strong. I would take him back. And not to dis your friend, she sounds jealous. If I am right she probably is stuck with someone and is unhappy.
2006-12-27 14:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a new friend. Wondering, if you really love him why use the word in pass tense (I loved him, he loved me). Listen to yourself an find out what you want. Anyone will say what you want to hear when they are lonely but do you trust him enough to try again.
Best of Luck
2006-12-27 14:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by goodfella150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even have to read it all before I could see that he really cares for you... No man would go through all the trouble when there are others out there he could talk to..
SO to answer your question YES take him back
2006-12-27 14:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has flaws. But trust is a necessity. If you doubted him you can be sure you will again. Do what you heart desires and everything will work as planned.
2006-12-27 14:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by afj60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk to him! You broke up because someone said HE cheated well he didn't. You owe him! He was there for you and now u need to be there for him. Give it a try!!
2006-12-27 14:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you could take away all the bad things he has done would still want to be with him? i say go for it. no offense, this may not be the first or the last time he may say something to upset you.
2006-12-27 14:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by cheryl h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did i just answer this? anyways i think its a trap.
2006-12-27 14:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by ohhh lalalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋