at one of my friends party my boyfreind was there and he was sitting like the whole time and i was like to my girl what should i do they said f*** him have fun so i was like alright so i was all up on all the guys in front of him and he asked me if i did and i said ya and he was mad for like 2 days and still cant get over it so i stopped talking to him for a while till he forgot about it!!!what should i do
2006-12-27 05:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by Desibabyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but your guy has a right to be mad. You really shouldn't have listened to your friend. Does your guy mean anything to you at all?? You don't just mess around with other guys when your in a relationship, that's the fastest way to end it. Sure, your guy could have been a little more fun, but maybe before the next time you go to a party explain to him that you really want to have fun WITH HIM at the party. Tell him you love his company and you would rather be all over him. You should tell him that you're sorry for what you did before because it was wrong and he'll forgive you.
It's not really cheating, but it would look like a stab in the back to your hunny. He could think that you don't really need him because you'll just have fun with all these other guys anyway.
2006-12-27 06:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wasn't considered cheating but hugely disrespectful. How would you feel in the same situation? As a girlfriend it's your responsibility to look after the person who you care about. And you didn't do that. You were only thinking of yourself. You could have sat down with bf and asked him if he wanted to go for a walk, dance or something but instead you danced all nasty with the guys right in front of his face! What should you do? Realize how mean and ugly you were and apologize. But you should probably never expect to get back with him.
2006-12-27 16:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by nochickenhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, define what is or is not acceptable behavior on the part of both yourself and your boyfriend. Is it OK to dance with another guy? Is it OK to kiss someone else on the lips? Is it OK to have oral sex with someone? Is it OK to just sleep in a bed with someone? The earlier you can talk out these issues, the sooner you can reach agreement or decide for yourself that the relationship is doomed from the start.
In this case, he obviously thought it crossed the line, so what we say is absolutely irrelevant to the relationship between you and him.
2006-12-27 14:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your explanation was a bit more clearer instead of that middle school talk we just might actually understand you better.
We can't help if we don't know what you're trying to say.
But thanks for the 2 points.
MJ
2006-12-27 14:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is inappropriate behavior. How would you feel if it was the other way around? He has every right to be upset at you.
2006-12-27 14:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until he FORGOT about it??
Wow, you must be in junior high.
And you may want to change your name, it's "cutie with a BOOTY" not a "BOTTY" unless of course you have a pet robot named "botty" or something.......
2006-12-27 14:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need some more time -to grow up.
2006-12-27 14:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-27 13:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a hoe, fo' sho'
you have a bf, rub up on him, that why you have a bf
2006-12-27 14:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell him your reasoning for doing it. he was being a bore and was ignoring you... so you tried to make him jealous/get a reaction out of him.
2006-12-27 14:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by harpielingo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋