my ex of that i dated for 3 years broke up with me couple months ago in the beginning i was beggin for her back and etc she started yelling at me and hangin up on me and talkin to me like im no body so i finally gave up and its been about 3 weeks she has been calling frequently and she wants to hang out wiht me why do you think she wants to do this the last thing i told her was that i only wanna talk to you if its about the relationship and never talked since but she calling alot now wha should i do
2006-12-27 05:50:20 · 35 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't hang out with her. She misses you because she has no one wanting her right now. But she wants only your attention, and not a relationship with you.
2006-12-27 05:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, Like I always say its never good to assume anything.
Talk to her a little bit and see what she wants. I mean be straight forward and ask whats up.
Don't be rude cause its not going to help anything anyway.
Just be polite and if she wants to get back together tell her sorry but you don't think that would be a good idea.Cause after all if she really cared about you the way you need her to, she wouldn't have treated you so mean and like you were nothing 3 weeks earlier.
Just act like she isn't anything(which shes not) And say hey I don't have no hatred for you, you obviously did what you wanted and I wish you luck but As of right now that's all I can give you.
She will see you as over her and have respect for you weather she wants to tell you or anyone else this you will still know.
Oh yeah, and go out and find a new girl that isn't going to crap on you again in the near future.Cause this one will!
2006-12-27 05:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with her and talk honestly. Tell her you how you feel and how she made you feel at that time. Tell her how she is making you feel now. You don't want to talk to her any further unless it is for dating purposes. If there is nothing there, then be firm and don't accept any calls from her if that is how you feel. I can be friends with my ex's, but not all people can. If she was being rude to you, I would find it hard to forget that rudeness. The only way to find out is to ask her. Maybe she misses you after being together with you for so long. I wouldn't get back with her unless you both feel in both your hearts it is the right thing for both of you.
2006-12-27 05:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's calling alot because you ignored her. She thought she lost your interest.
Do you really want her back? If so, keep it up! I am a girl, and a tough one at that. When a man ignores me, I turn in to a vulnerable, insecure wuss! Has he moved on? Is he having so much fun that he can't return my call"?
Then you'll have her where you want her. I call it the "Principle of Least Interest". The one that exudes the least interest, holds the most power.
Good luck and Happy New Year!
2006-12-27 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses the attention you gave her when you were begging her to come back. She wants you to still want her bro. I've hung out with ex's and tried the whole friends thing. IT DOESNT WORK! There are always negative feelings there on one or both counts...that's why you broke up. Move on is my opinion. She sounds unstable.
2006-12-27 05:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by arniemail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one...she left you for someone else and unfortunately for her that didn't work out now she has come crawling back and is wanting to be with you again. If you want to be with her sit down and iron things out and try again other than that view it as just a straight up "BOOTY CALL" and leave it at.
2006-12-27 05:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dressed to Impress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be alarmed, you just broke up. There are a lot of mixed emotions. One thing you need to be aware of is if there is someone else in the picture. If so, then you need to be leery. Don't allow for her to build you up with emotion and then toy with you when she sees your still involved. Distance yourself from the relationship emotionally and she will either follow or dissipate from the picture. Watch.
2006-12-27 06:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by theloveuneverhad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you still feel about her?
Sounds like this person is a bit flaky. I think that once you stopped talking with her she may feel like she in losing you, so she is trying to keep you in her grasp.
My advice is to move on. She had her chance with you, she broke it off with you. If she has done this to you once, chances are that she will do this again down the road, if you take her back.
2006-12-27 05:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by sandilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still have feelings for her, if u do u must resolve them now, either on the phone or in person. she is calling u because she wants u back, so if this is not what u want prepare to tell her that and don't get caught up in something u are not ready to go back into to--- good luck
2006-12-27 05:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by sagie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she´s missing the attention.
Say no, let her cook.
If you want to go on with her then give her another shot after a few weeks, if not then best make a clean cut after the cooking period.
2006-12-27 05:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ganymede 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋