my best friends boy and girls are dating shes just doing it to spite me is it ok to sabatoge?orr what should i do
2006-12-27 05:45:59 · 21 answers · asked by Amy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ignore her. If she is doing this out of spit then she wants you react like that. She'll probably try to turn him against you if you do anything to sabotage it and then you'll be without 2 friends. Just ignore her and it will pass.
2006-12-27 05:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and enjoy the show. Spite isn't much to base a relationship on, It'll go sour. If you try to sabatoge it your just playing at her imature level.
2006-12-27 05:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by thomas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your language you are a kid. concentrate on school. additionally,
-doesn't the guy have any say in whom he dates?
- do you have a crush on your best guy friend?
- don't you want your best friends to be happy?
- if your best girl friend knew you like the boy, sheshould not have started dating him, SHOWS YOU HOW MUCH SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND.
see how complicated love is??? don't rush growing up. you have all the time in the world to do that- 18-80's etc is a lot of yrs compared to 13-18 only 5 so enjoy these years while you can. no getting them back when later you decide you are ready to be a child.
2006-12-27 05:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's just doing it to spite you - what kind of "best" friend is she? Get rid of her and make sure you tell your guy friend whats going on, it's not fair for him to get hurt because of some immaturity.
2006-12-27 05:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES SABATOGE!! especially if your bff is just doing this to spite you--what kind of friend is she?
2006-12-27 05:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by ellizi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok um ive in no way been in that difficulty me and my friends have way distinctive tastes yet identity could say relies upon on if shes the only woman im drawn to if i in my opinion like that a million woman then identity choose for her yet while i in basic terms wanted to sleep together with her and have a exciting relationship thats no longer serious by any skill identity decrease back off and discover somebody i care approximately
2016-10-19 01:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like either of them is your best friend if they aren't respecting your feelings.
But I wouldn't want to try and control them. Let it ride. Jsut keep occupied with something else. If it works out maybe you'll be the bridesmaid.
2006-12-27 05:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her dad just to spite her in return...
Good times had by all :)
2006-12-27 05:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by PaLAuSKi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if that is the only reason she is dating this guy, u don't have to do anything, just sit back and watch the fun,she will get whats coming to her, but in the mean time, ask your self why does it bother u so much and what is your true feelings here?
2006-12-27 05:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by sagie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you don't care. seriously it will make her realize she's doing it for no reason, and if she doesn't get the attention and jealousy she wants from you, then she'll probably get bored. or to be annoying back, act like you're happy for them and be really peppy... or date one of her really good guy friends!
2006-12-27 05:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋