i am 16 and wnat to wait till college but watching my friends deal with this crap and losing it before high school make me wonder if i will be the only one in 1st year college who dint do it. i i dont find pre marrige sex wrong but just want to wait till collge to get away from family and all but teh no guy wants to date and wait that long and if they did i feel guity to make them wait that long. so i am confused. will i be the only one to wait that long
2006-12-27 05:37:49 · 27 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait as long as you can. Once its gone you'll never get it back. If you do it now and it wasn't what you expected you will never forgive yourself for not waiting. And don't ever let some boy sweet talk you, tell you he love, or temp you to do something you're not ready for or don't want to do. Seriously, its not that serious. Definitely worth the wait. And you are so young ...
2006-12-27 05:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by nealee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If I had the chance I would have waited longer then what I really did! Bcuz I thought he was the right one and everything then after he dumped me a week later, I felt even worse then the day it happened! Then I found someone I wished I would have waited for, but it was too late! Wait it out hun! It's not worth everything they're really talking about and they really wont care about you and once they take it it's gone forever! Plus the person you give it too, you will always remember who you gave it too....I'd wait it out and I know for a fact that you wouldnt be the only one to get to your 1st year in college and still have it.....there's more out there then you think!~
2006-12-27 13:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too old at all. Besides you obviously have yet to find someone worth giving it to. You may want that to be your goal. How bout if you refrain from giving it up till you find somoeone worthy of the gift. It may be after 18 and after your first year of college. Don't go doing it just because your friends are. You could end up with a baby and never making it to college. Why chance your future on it.
2006-12-27 13:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that waiting is the best thing to do if that is what you wont don't let pear pressure make you do something that you don't wont to do. And if you are the only girl in college that is still a virgin then you have something that none of the rest have and that cant get it or buy it so hang on to what you have case it if worth more than you think.
2006-12-27 13:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by country431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not be the only one to wait that long.
Do not give in to peer pressure. Be your own person and determine when is right for you. If you give it up just for the sake of not wanting to be different then you wll regret it later.
Forget about anything or anyone other than what you want on this one. You only have that to give ONCE so make it count.
2006-12-27 13:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what your friends are doing do whats best for you, if a guy doesn't want to wait until your ready then he's not worth your trouble, and never ever feel guilty for sticking to what you believe in.
2006-12-27 14:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by shellie11985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do what everyone else is doing. I saw one of the hottest girls in my life once and she was an virgin at 20 something. Thats cool! I hate to say it but stick to your fingers if u know what I mean. College has a whole lot more people to choose from......just wait for the rifht one.
2006-12-27 13:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It think that 18 is not to old. I think that time will tell. You do not have to give yourself up just yet. You only can do it when you are ready. Do not think that you are the only person waiting cause you are not. You would be surprise on how many person are actually saving themselves for that right person.
2006-12-27 13:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you won't be alone. I waited until my last year of college because I wanted that to be special. I waited and I'm glad I did. You have to do what's best for you. Never jump into a sexual relationship if you don't really want it.
2006-12-27 13:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend's sister went to college a virgin. She wasn't the only one. I lost it at 16 and am still with the guy. He told me that he was okay with never doing it after he found out I was raped. Guys can wait, they won't die.
2006-12-27 13:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋