at least one daily since we have been together. He wanted to break up with my I said ok after I agreed he called me back the same night crying and said say he had changed his mind that he was really in love with me Last week he said that he wanted to see other people said ok. than he called me back the same night and said that he wanted me to spend the weekend with him.
He spent the weekend with another girl he said he wanted to be with her but after the weekend was over he called me back saying that he wanted to be with me. I am a virgin and have never has sex with anyone. He said again that he wanted to see other people I said ok he said that I could see other people also but that neither one of us could have sexual relations with other people. This boy is really confusing me I am 17 and so is he help!!
2006-12-27 05:31:35 · 19 answers · asked by Ann_T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him and move on. He wants to see other people because he isn't getting satisfied in the relationship you two have. It is possible that he does care for you. However, Love is a strong word. He may be trying to pressure you into having sexual relations with him. If that is the case, he isn't the one for you. Because, sex comes when both parties want it. Furthermore, you may have the beliefs that sex comes after marriage. which is fine. Is he still a virgin? If not that may be part of the problem. Once someone has had sex, they crave it more. That may be why he is "straying". Try seeing other people, you may find out that he isn't the only man for you. Don't be pressured into doing anything that your not ready to live with the consequences.
2006-12-27 05:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's really confused about what he wants and if you don't want to get hurt, leave him! The fact that he is seeing other people doesn't sit too well, and that he changes his mind more than once a week. You are a virgin, which means you are still pure and don't want that to be taken by a guy that doesn't deserve it. Maybe he does really love you, but can't get over all the other girls he wants to be with. Just be friends with him for now, see if later down the road he really does want to be with you and only you. If not, then you will find someone else that will be better for you, someone actually worth giving your purity to!
2006-12-27 05:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds confused. at first i thought that he was bluffing to see if you really cared about him and then when you said that he could do whatever he did not like it. after i found out that he was with another girl for a whole weekend it leads me to believe that he really does not care about you. if he did he would want to be with you and not play these games with you. you should get rid of him. you dont need it. remember that boys do not mature at the same rate as girls and he has the mentality of a 12 year old.
2006-12-27 05:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by mel2430 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is plin as day and I dont understand why you dont see it sweetie. You said your a virgin and the is Very good for you, He probaly really does love you but the reason he always breaks it off is because he wants sex. So he has sex and comes back to you. You should really consider breaking him off. Do you really wanna touch and go relationship anyways?
2006-12-27 05:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both young. He is a player. He is keeping you on the back burner as a back-up when stuff isn't working with other girls. You need to let him go and live your life for you, not some boy. Grow-up, get a career, than think about getting serious with somebody.
2006-12-27 05:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like emotional abuse. Use caution. By reading your question, I have noticed that you don't seem to mind the thought of breaking it off with him. Every time he suggests it, you agree. Maybe it is your subconscious talking. Like maybe you realize down deep inside that you need to sever your tie. Do it swiftly because things may progress. Women, nor men, deserve abuse in any way shape or form. Good luck.
2006-12-27 05:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really doesnt know what he wants he is comfused himself. He could b with someone else and all he thinks about is u. I think u should call him and yall should have a real conversation and expree how u really feel to each other i think talking it out instead of arguring about it and after that wait and see what happens
2006-12-27 06:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by bribrimrs.spongebob#2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a virgin, hes getting frustrated, thats WHY he keeps making and breaking with you, so whilst you are on break he can go and F**K some other chick, and still get back with you...
DUMP HIM!
2006-12-27 05:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to confuse you so that you will give in to him. As soon as you let him get between your legs he will be gone for good. And it will probably be the most boring three minutes of your life.
2006-12-27 05:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to break off the relationship. Keep him as a friend and if you both decide you want to be together when you're a bit older, try then.
2006-12-27 05:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋