"Paul don't reply just wanted 2 say that although i told u that i wasnt happy in our relationship,there where sum amazing times and i loved u dearly,u r a wonderful human being and i am sure u will complete ur courses,get a gr8 job +meet another lovely lady + be happy.when we r both stronger +not hurting so much im sur a friendship can develop it just just takes time.so please,look at 2007 as a year 4 new beginnings,new friendships + a better life,u deserve it"
Well this was after yesterday i called and went round to see her and she told me load of reasons why she broke up with me mainly moving apart we where together for 4 years it's been 6wks did not expect her to contact me we ended well apart from me keep asking why i moved out of our rented house but i wanted to stay friends she did to she is also dealing with anarexica and depression!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 05:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she has got a lot a problems and does not want to drag you down. she loves you so much she is willing to let you go so you don't get fed up with her and her problems. dealing with someone with deppression and anarexica is hard work but if you love her you will stick around. Get lots of professional advice from doctors. My advice is stay friends and keep close contact with her. Dont forget your life though. she is right, you deserve a life of your own. make friends and other interests. good luck mate.
2006-12-27 05:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's seaking closure - I've sent an email just like that before, her feelings for you have changed 'loved you dearly' i'm sure she loved you passionately once but now it's just a fond memory? Now that she has realised these new feelings, she thinks she can handle and enjoy a close friendship with you. Be there for her if you can and see where things go, I think she's asking you to move on (like she has) - People might read this like she's depressed and thinks you deserve someone better, I don't think so, When I wrote that email, I wanted closure.
That's my take on it anyway,
good luck and best wishes,
tasha x
2006-12-27 13:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she wishes you the best in life and love? What's wrong with that?
Your relationship ended for a reason. Take some time to purge the anger and sadness, put it behind you and move on.
2006-12-27 13:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well i think shes playing with ya mind cos why would she contact you and stress you out if she wished you the best she would leave you alone her choice to move out hmm doont get dragged back into a whole lots of problems forget her and move on ;)
2006-12-27 17:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by luckyscrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is wishin you well for 2007,tellin u that she loves you and when both your wounds have healed she hopes you can remain friends..wats wrong with that?she is going through a tough time,perhaps she cant deal with the relationship right now but in future things may change.she is just being nice to you,she obviously thinks alot of you.
2006-12-27 17:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds sweet, its a shame you broke up, by the sounds of it though she has allot to deal with, give all the support you can, you could end up being good mates or back together if you want that?
2006-12-27 13:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get yer trainers on and RUN for the hills !!
2006-12-27 13:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by D S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is crackers buddy
just run
plus it sounds like she is guilty of maybe cheating?
2006-12-27 13:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O wow. Be nice to her, show her that even though yall aren't dating you can be mature about things. Be there for her.
2006-12-27 13:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow a bit complicated, good luck whatever happens, i think your going to need it, take care x
2006-12-27 13:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋