I am sick of all the men in my life and Would I be a bad person If I found me a new lover ? I want to start a long term relationship with no strings . How does it make me look?
2006-12-27 05:26:25 · 40 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no boyfriend holding me back !
2006-12-27 05:29:54 · update #1
You go girl,life's way to short to live it being unhappy !
2006-12-27 05:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about how something makes you look to others unless it will be hurtful to them in some way.
Do what feels right for you and that makes you happy. Isn't a long-term relationship w/out strings kind of an oxymoron, though? Because in a long-term relationship aren't there expectations for a possible future?
Not sure if this has helped at all!
2006-12-27 05:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't know if u can have a long term relationship with no strings but u can give it a try but don't mess the relationship up if theres a string or 2 unless u think he's the right guy
Good luck,
~rOcKy~
2006-12-27 05:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't make you a bad person at all. It's hard to have al ong term no strings relationship though. Good luck.
When the time is right and you are ready you can find whatever you want.
2006-12-27 05:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't sound bad. Non-commital relationships are sometimes the best thing for people who know they don't want anything serious from the start. Just make sure that whomever you end up with knows from the start that the relationship isn't going to end up anything more than a good time...that way, no one gets their feelings hurt when it doesn't work out in the end.
2006-12-27 05:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it makes you look like just about 70- 90 % of the women out there. Most girls want to start a long term relationship so this is nothing new and it doesnt make you look bad.
2006-12-27 05:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I truley understand what u r going through. I think it makes u look like a better person and 2 me it looks like u are really concerned about your relationship I think u r doing the right thing
2006-12-27 05:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by bribrimrs.spongebob#2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be a bad person? Do you plan to find a new lover by killing off the others? You are obligated to no one except yourself.
Get out there and find a new guy and don't worry about how it makes you look. You know how I think it makes you look?
Smart.
Independent.
Self-Sufficient.
Able to Make her Own Decisions.
Go-Getter
Now, get offline and find that new MAN!!!! lol!!!
P.S. ....and take me with you!
2006-12-27 05:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
very interesting.... so u kind of want to play people.... or do you want to have a REAL long term relationship... u can't really call it a long term relationship with no strings attatched.... then it's not really a relationship...
but u just have to find someone who's okay with your expectations
2006-12-27 09:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by the sign 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only a bad person if you deliberately hurt someone else's feelings. Be honest and break it off with the current men in your life, and go find a new man. Be honest with him about what you're looking for, and what you don't want or can't offer.
2006-12-27 05:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're not a bad person.. but you cant go around hurting peoples feelings just because yours were once...
it wouldn't be fair for the next guy...
besides. if you didn't like what that felt like.. don't make other people feel the same... and what if you meet your soul mate and screw it up because of some ex that remains in you head...
i say.. have some time alone for a while
2006-12-27 05:32:14 · answer #11 · answered by JACKIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋