How does one judge whether he is ugly or not?

Question

I look in the mirror and see a grotesque, horrific, frightening, mongoloidish freak. Are there young men out there interested in such an anomoly. I need confidence to seek new partners but my misshapen head is a daily reminder that I am a bizarre appearing spectacle.

Answer 1

You can't judge if you're good looking or not. The only way you'll know is if other people start telling you you are good looking, handsome/beautiful, prettyboy/prettygirl, or whatnot. And it has to come from them without you asking otherwise they might just be saying that because you put them on the spot. If you hear you are good-looking from a lot of different people then you know you are good looking.

Answer 2

What you see may not be what everyone else see. I think that I am fat but others would love to have my body. Do not take what you have a make the worst of it, make the best of it. Not everyone thinks looks are that important. Low self esteem is not attractive so work on that and you will find someone!

Answer 3

There is someone out there for everyone. Just be yourself and take pride in who you are. That plays more into chemistry than one might think. And it's chemistry that lands em, nothin else.

Answer 4

honestly, these days, its all a matter of opinion.. we all have different taste and different idea's of what is "attractive" and "goodlooking"... to one person you could be in their top 20 ugliest people they've ever seen category.. but yet to another, you just may be a gods sent, most gorgeous creature alive..<3

Answer 5

its the inside that counts...most people are shallow but you will find someone who loves you for who you are :) i know you think you feel down now but you'll find someone...be confident people will take you seriously.