This man is in a point of his life were he is reevaluating what he is going to do. Dont want to settle down with anyone until he knows that he finacial and ready to take care of his wife. while saying this we have talked baout marriage and living together and all of the above and. FOR CRYING OUT LOUD HE OWNS HIS OWN BUSINESS AND HAS DEGREE AND WANTS NOTHING MORE BUT TO PLEASE ME, BUT I CANT CONTINUE TO BE AAREOUND HIM AND COMMIT FORNIFICATION WHAT AM I GOING TO DO ? We have talked about what we did and we both know that its immoral and not rigth, but fighting the flesh is so hard PLEASE I NEED ADVICE.
2006-12-27 04:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I read part one of your question, then your follow-up. My advice for you is this:
Now that the two of you have crossed the line, you will never be able to have a chaste and platonic relationship. If he's not interested in marriage, you must stop seeing him. You've repented of your sin, now you must move on.
As Jesus said, "now go, and sin no more."
2006-12-27 04:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Suzanne: YPA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter the credentials or his background or his job, it seems he has a problem with commitment - he's getting what he wants without having to be committed to you. What is his spiritual status and walk with God? If you say that it is immoral and not right, don't put yourself in situations where you may give in. I'm only speaking from experience as I went through this as well.
2006-12-27 04:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by maguainc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Rach, here is yet another of Paul's teachings - Galatians 3:28 - "by using fact all of you're one in Messiah Jesus, someone is now no longer a Jew or a Greek, a slave or a loose person, or a *male or a woman* to respond to your question: in case you spot it somewhat is written to the CORINTHIAN church the place people who accumulated to worship God have been a minimum of disruptive - in case you study from the 1st financial disaster of Corinthians you will see the form of people Paul replaced into writing to... look decrease back to v 8 of your financial disaster - Paul says "I choose as a result" meaning the training comes from him and not directly from God...it somewhat is not a command from God - it somewhat is Paul's coaching to maintain some order interior the provider - and this text has been so abused via *some* adult adult males - and *some* women all people is happy to bypass alongside with it. sure scripture is for our earnings - yet this text is open for interpretation for my section - additionally it somewhat is cultural, which we interior the west do no longer thoroughly understand. women people interior the bible have been instructors, prophets, Evangelists, Apostles etc - in basic terms as women people immediately nevertheless serve God in those comparable rolls. In ACTS a million-2 women people accumulated for the empowerment of the Holy Ghost alongside with adult adult males - this replaced into the beginning up of the Christian church at Pentecost. So bypass decrease back to GAL textual content cloth - *there is no male or woman* -- so i end interior the COR textual content cloth Paul had yet another rationalization for his coaching - and it somewhat isn't any longer what a lot of people think of. the main suitable part of do is detect a church the place the minister/pastor treats women and adult adult males people the two - all one interior the physique of Christ - that's yet another coaching of Paul - so would not that inform you something approximately COR!!
2016-10-19 01:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should give up on him. It sounds like he is making flimsy excuses as the reason for not commiting. It could drag on for years this way, and you might split up in the end anyway.
Ask yourself, does he love you, or is it just a comfortable, convenient relationship for him?
Best wishes in the new year.
2006-12-27 04:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should make a Christian Jerry Springer show. This would be perfect fodder.
2006-12-27 04:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy stop doing it....it is your life and you are the one destroying it...what is hard about saying no I am better than that and will not allow no person to hurt me..
2006-12-27 04:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is NEVER going to marry you. Move on...
2006-12-27 04:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mav here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋