I must thank you all about your opinions to the response to " I lost my trust for her.....more info." explaining about my wife who confessed to me having an affair with her boss two years before I met her. I have always loved her very much and vice versa however there has never been any intimacy when it came to our sex life and never seen her p...y always felt odd as she just closes her legs if I go near her. Anyway last year she went visiting her parents overseas and when she returned home she stayed two weeks in Pattaya in Thailand . Before she departed she did not have the information she stayed and during her stay she never called me as she later explained she lost my mobile number. I trusted her at the time but when she told me about an affair she had before our marriage I now start to think differently about her trip to Pattaya as well. We were planning to have a family but I feel she may have too many skeletons, she won't talk and it been great talking to you for directions.
2006-12-27 03:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too late. You married her, and now you need to make every effort to make things work. That is part of the deal you made when you exchanged vows. I know....I am divorced. I did my best to fix my marriage, before taking the big plunge into divorce. It's not as easy as you think to just leave.
Maybe you need to tell her how you feel, instead of all of us. Seek counseling, and try to work on your relationship and building trust. It's not an easy thing, and most people cannot do it alone. Get some help and do you very best to save your marriage and remember your promises to each other.
2006-12-27 04:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you have serious marriage problems. First you need to work on the intimacy issues. How can you be married and never fully seen eachother naked? You have to except eachother fully and give yourself to eachother fully, mind, body, and soul, thats what marriage vows are trully about. Then, how on earth is your wife gonna loose your mobile #? I'm sorry but if it were my spouse I wouldn't forgive him for that. Open your communication with her and get help because if not your gonna be another divorce statistic and that's a shame. If you need someone to talk to and don't mind the brutal honesty feel free to send me a message, I'll listen.
2006-12-27 04:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 05:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by coratello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is deep. Although I do not know your wife; if she is conservative near you then maybe she is even more soaround others. Also, if you are planning to have a family you should sit down and probably talk about it first; you might want toseek counseling maybe or something like that if you are unsure.
...Sorry I couldn't be much more help
2006-12-27 04:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lixender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say your gut never lies to you and if you feel she has betrayed you then you might be right. i don't believe she lost your number she just did not want to call. why isn't your number in her phone. sounds like she is hiding things from you and for her not to have information on her trip that i do not believe. better sit and have a talk and if she won't boot her cheatin ***. just remember, once a cheater always a cheater
2006-12-27 04:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce her. been there done that. the ole mobile doesnt work story. she is coming clean for two reasons either it's getting serious or he cut her off. and it's hard to tell. you mentioned thailand so i assume she is oriental. no disrespect but these woman are floozies aka HOES! i know someone who is dating one. classless trash. go after any man that looks like $$$$ sorry fyi kimora lee dumped her husband now that she doesnt $$$ need him.
2006-12-27 04:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a big issue..and you need to let her know how u feel...u can't go on holding this inside of you...sit her down and have a long talk with her...if your going to be married you have to trust the other person with everything
2006-12-27 04:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to lose your trust for her.....i really think she's having an affair.....things like this just happens....it's not your fault....just take it easy and think how u want this to go......good luck....
2006-12-27 04:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm sounds to me this is something you need to sit down and talk to your "WIFE" about, considering you are already married all these skeletons should have already been dicussed and out in the open
2006-12-27 04:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUT FEELINGS, BOY CAN THEY BE CHARMFUL FRIEND/ADVISER. SOUNDS TO ME SOMETHINGS GOING ON, LOOKS LIKE SHES SNOOPING AROUND, SAME ISSUE HAPPENED TO ME,, FOUND PLENTY SKELETONS ON HER BEHALF....IM DIVORCED, AND STILL UNCOVERING MANY TALES, ,,,,CONSIDER HARD WHATS UR NEXT MOVE,ESPECIALLY IF IT INVOLVES FUTURE PLANS OF A FAMILY
2006-12-27 04:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by ESQUID 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋