Well my boyfriend is in Aspen, Colorado and i am from Costa Rica. He loves me but have to go for the big season, xmas and new year along without him is hard, he will come backn until april 20... I miss him so much. Whe talk on the phone, messenger, web cam all that stuff but i miss to kiss him, hug him..I am going to visit him on febraury for san valentine`s day. What to do wait him or not?
2006-12-27 03:54:11 · 17 answers · asked by Pilar T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. It's not that far away. The bigger question is if you both have a plan long term to bridge this distance. And if you have the integrity and maturity to wait it out.
Good luck.
2006-12-27 03:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are willing to do what it takes to make your relationship work (which it sounds like you are) then stay with it. It will come to a point where the distance will have to be resolved, either you'll stay together in the same area, or decide to break apart. But for now, revel in the fact that you are extremely loved and trust in your relationship. IF you have love and trust, all the other things will work themselves out. :) good luck!
2006-12-27 11:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by INS24106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then waiting is the only option. You won't feel it till feb comes and then april is only 8 weeks later... If you are already thinking of other guys then maybe 4 months is too long..
2006-12-27 12:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by gina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had luck with long distance relationships. Unless one of you has plans to move closer to the other, I would go shopping for a new boyfriend.
2006-12-27 11:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by True Dat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love this boy wait for him what do you have to lose and on the other hand if you dont wait for him, think of how you would feel afterword ,that will be something you would have to live with the rest of your life so be sure to think about it seriously
2006-12-27 12:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CHASE ANY MAN!!! This will just push him away or he will take advantage of you. If he loves you, he will put more effort into seeing you and moving to you. Long distance relationships SUCK!
2006-12-27 12:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he too luvs u and is so much troubled as u then wait for him and have cybersex with him, expose urself to him by exchanging naked photos of ur and teling him to to give u his naked pics , tht's the to pass the time, if ur not into so much, and don't want to expose, tell him to send new pics of his(clothed) and u juss stare at them
2006-12-27 12:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a question which you should know how to answer...
Watch - American Pie - the naked mile movie...
it will help u making ur decision..
2006-12-27 12:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sabes que babe, you need to look in your heart and decide for yourself. Test your love, see if your love is strong and wait for him to come back to you, this way you can really find out if he truly loves you, good luck.
2006-12-27 12:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if both of you were willing to wait then wait but if either of you have doubts....take the time off...and see if the sparks are there when you reunite...
2006-12-27 11:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋