best friends, started going out shortly after the breakup with the man she "loved", it was amazing she sed shed fallen for me, something happnd i dnt no wat but she wanted us to go on a break i reluctantly accepted even tho i did nothig rong dint wana push her, she sed her hed was messd up, needed tym, bin 3 munths and wer just friends i wnt her soo much weve kisd and dun stuff since the breakup but i want mor want to call her my gf but she says she cant, stoppd all physical contact now but r still bestfriends talk evryday and my heat hurts evryday, need er to b myn i love her shes evrythng to me but now shes used to things the way they are her bieng free and single but still having me as her best friend, wut can i do to get her back? i no she wants me she noes i want her an i try so hard but to no avail, i she scared what can i do to make her c im the one? gifts dnt work n e mor telling her i love her is useless she noes it, how can i get her to take a chance and giv it a go? pls help
2006-12-27 03:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by A Decent Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try separating yourself from her a little don't be so available to her. If she can talk to you everyday she is getting what she wants from the relationship if friendship is what you want you have that. If you want more start moving away and if she don't want to lose you she will take it to the next level. Either way you might lose her because if one person in a relationship wants to be friends and the other person wants more it is a doomed relationship.
2006-12-27 04:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you need to be left alone to lick your own wounds for a while.. and although it may kill you for a bit don't be so available. It sounds like she is on the rebound and wants you as a comfort but she really does not know what she wants. You can never make any one like you when you are being such a push over. Try and move on if she really wants you she will let you know.
2006-12-27 11:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by gina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just gotta give this girl some space right now. You are kinda putting it on a little heavy. Let this girl see what she is missing. Hang out with some friends that are girls. Let her see how well you treat them and how she would be a fool to not want to be with you. Just don't force her. I know from personal experience, it's always when you write them off and say you're moving on, that's when they come around. Just give her some time and be patient. If it's meant to be you can wait.
2006-12-27 11:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by limegreenjeep22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first go to school, and learn how to spell. second, just tell her that you want to get back together with her and then you will be with her for months!! and then you will get to do all the things you wanted to do. if she doesnt want to get married to you then maybe you are going a little to fast for her. take time
2006-12-27 11:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dmn learn how to WRITE any ways just tell her what you just wrote dont be embarresed if she shuns you then its her loss remeber u go n tell her
2006-12-27 12:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by a.arriaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spell check!!
2006-12-27 11:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by genius12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋