i dumped the other guy but my new boyfriend is way too sweet and too kind and he is hunky let me tell you. He is my dream guy but he just stares at my boobs too much. once, he was helping me put in a light bulb and he just swept his hands over my boobs. but he doesnt do anything more though.should i dump him? but i love him.keep that in mind.
2006-12-27 03:38:34 · 49 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you want to dump your boyfriend because he likes to stare at your boobs??? am I missing something?
2006-12-27 03:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yulia 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hard to answer this not knowing how old you are. I assume by the changing of the light bulb business that you are over 18 and maybe live on your own?? I think that maybe after your relationship has progressed and you have been seeing each other for a few more months maybe that will change. Maybe he has not touched that many yet! LOL You said that he is sweet and kind so maybe is is a little obsessed with them and shy about it. After you have dated a while and he can actually touch them see if things change! LOL If it becomes a constant problem and you really think that is all he wants by all means dump him. I can't believe there can be that many "boobs" left in the world with all the big breasted women there are out there now that a man could really want a woman just for that. Maybe he right now is like I said a little in awe of them and after things get a little more comfortable between the 2 of you that will change. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 03:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by tessie452004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop if u don't like, but never do dis, and never try to dump him he luvs ur body especially ur boobs if it was sumthing else he would have gone on to try to rape or sleep with u, but be happy he didn't did neythin lyk tht, never dump him, he just stares at ur boobs but never does neything more as u sed, he's a boy and we boys luv to luk at boobs let him do it and enjoy it, take it the other way and u'll feel like a princess, it will be more felt tht ur a princess and he lyks u if u allow him to caress them either covered or uncovered(ur wish if u wanna expose or not), n then c the result
2006-12-27 03:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be to tell him to stop it if you don't like it. Guys don't usually use their brains with their girlfriends, they use a different part of the anatomy. That is why the girlfriend needs to keep that part of them in check. You need to tell him you are uncomfortable with him doing that, if he does not listen then yes you should dump him. Don't let him treat you a certain way if it is not the way you want to be treated.
2006-12-27 03:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by JordanDDunn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stare at my fiancee's boobs all the time and she loves it, I guess it just depends on how much you are interested in him physically and if you are ready for that kind of relationship or not. If you aren't you need to tell him to stop staring and that it makes you feel uncomfortable and he'll either quit staring or you'll find out if he is only interested in sex.
2006-12-27 03:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by raistlinn55 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is in a boob stupor
He is frozen in fascination
He probably is a bit immature in that he has attempted no more than "swept hands".
You (and yours) are probably a focal point of his dreams.
"Hottie", you know the magic is working for you.
If you "love him', don't move them too quickly in his presence or you'll snap his neck.
It appears you're well aware of the powers you possess.
However, it you believe he excessively stares, and you are bothered by it, let him know -- he doesn't know now in his stupor.
Think of the image of Homer Simpson and food.--same relationship, same stupor.
2006-12-27 04:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would u prefer someone else other than ur boyfriend have a constant stare at ur boobs? U should be grateful of what posses. Personally, i dont know why that makes ur uncomfortable. Give it time, hell get over it, its a man's thing. AS long as he aint doing in public.
2006-12-27 03:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by ESQUID 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer likely understand what to assert by using fact I continuously choose for the eyes. yet i'm going to bypass with what all people else is saying. adult adult males like boobs and butts so can no longer somewhat help. Sorry! :)
2016-10-19 01:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DARE YOU !! You sign on Y!A with the screen name hottie, then complain that your bf finds your body extremely attractive - so much so that he can't keep his eyes off your chest.
When will you women learn that men are visually stimulated by the female body. We are victims of NATURE. Our job is to procreate, and our minds are wired to pick out the most fertile females - this fertility thing translates to sexy body. So if you choose to define yourself as hottie, then stop complaining when your actions create attraction.
'nuff said
2006-12-27 03:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok girl, don't dump him. He is a guy, their minds are a little different then ours. If you love him, then confront him about the situation and just explain to him that your eyes are futher up on your head! Don't let it bother you.
2006-12-27 03:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by *NiKki* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋