I am a 32 year old Female. Is a 23 year old guy too young for me?
2006-12-27 03:37:06 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No... If you are attracted to eachother & you have things in common, then... go for it!
2006-12-27 03:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have asked me that question a year ago, I would have said yes he's too young. But back then I was very close minded. I have been opened up to new things over the past year and age difference is one of them, very recent for me actually. I started having feeling for someone who is 7 years younger than I am and come to find out he was attracted to me as well. We dated for a while but I wasn't ready for a relationship and neither was he. We still care about eachother and might end up back later on in life, who knows. All I can say is that if you guys are on the same level, then there isn't anything wrong with your age. If he's mature enough, then go for it. He could be the person that was sent here just for you! and the age difference is a test to see how much you two really want eachother.
2006-12-27 04:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 37 and my husband just turned 21. We have a great marriage and no matter what anyone thinks about it, I am so happy that I gave this relationship a chance. We get along great. We have an 8 month old baby together. He is only 2 years older than my oldest daughter. She did not approve at first but in time she has seen the love that we share and how good we are for one another and has since given her full blessing. I love it! Yes, people have called him my son and we get a kick out of it and he will say Mommy give me a kiss and lay one on me. Honey, do not worry what people will say and think about this. If it is right for you and him then go for it. Some off the best couples are those that no one thinks will ever work. They call us "Cougars". If you still got it then let it work for ya! Those young girls are just mad because we can take and keep a man!
2006-12-27 03:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really if he is a mature 23 ..As long as you have something in comman with one another I dont see a problem in that.I dont see a difference if he was 32 and you were 23 same thing.
2006-12-27 03:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his maturity level. You can't base anything off of age. There are cases were the young act older and the older act younger. Allow things to work and don't rush in too fast, this way you can see if this is what you want. I am 43 and my fiance is 26, we'll be married in May 2007. Anything is possible.
2006-12-27 03:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not when you love him. I`m 32 and my bf is 50. My grandma is 70 my grandpa 86, my mom is 54 my stephfater 45.
So enjoy the time anyway how old he is.
2006-12-27 03:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both happy?
If you answered yes, then stop spending so much time worrying about the age difference and enjoy the time you have together.
You need to keep in mind that you both will have different mind sets and are in different places in your life so there's obviously going to be some differences in what you want out of the relationship etc... but for the time being just enjoy it!
Best of luck
2006-12-27 03:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by ShiningBright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an ideal body chemistry as far as ages are concerned. Men usually get to their highest sexual urges and "performance" on their late teens to their early twenties while women heat up higher and gets wilder on their thirties... Although I don't want to predict that a long term relationship might not work with both of you as far as "sexual" issues are concerned, I will still respect the emotional and spiritual bondings that you two have built and will build up... Goodluck to both of you...
2006-12-27 03:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date someone with that much age difference because the way you were brought up and the difference in the way he was brought up is different. He has not had enough time to mature in his thinking either.
If you were both 35 years older it would be OK, but not now.
2006-12-27 03:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're looking for in a man. If you're just wanting a booty call...have fun! But if you're looking for a serious relationship then he may be too young. Depends on the maturity of the guy too...go with your gut feeling and what your heart tells you!
2006-12-27 03:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men do not mature as fast as a female so you need to consider this as he gets older I personally do not think age should or does make any difference,the maturity does when you both age will that change anything I dont know but it is a thought.........good luck
2006-12-27 03:43:44 · answer #11 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋