Ok, Of the 3 one is definitely out because of various reasons.
But the other 2, one will give me security. Is a well known person and has everything I could ever dream of..Only problem here is that he has been dating me for a year and has never proposed
The other guy loves me for real and wants to keep me happy but has nothing. Is still struggling but will never cheat on me and will be honest. And he has proposed many times to get married.
I have taken time to decide and just cannot make up my mind. Help !!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 03:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by ?Name? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u gotta ask this question u ain't ready 4 any marriage BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 03:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I would in my opinion be with someone who loves me unconditional who treats me good than be with someone who has it all and takes me for granted its not about money its about love and respect if the second guy is working to have something be patient because good things come to those who wait pick one person and make a list of pros and cons and whoever basically makes you fully happy go for it, And also ask God to show you also and that should be of some help to you I hope. But the more guys you date the more complicated the situation will get and sooner or later someone is gonna get hurt.
2006-12-27 03:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, the well known guy has been dating you for a year and has not proposed?? Could it be because you have two other boyfriends?!
The guy who has proposed to you is nuts! He is faithful and needs to find a girl who is worthy of him.
Having said the above, I now must say this: Wake up!! You are dreaming.
2006-12-27 03:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer this ....are you a gold digger or true to your heart? Bottom line is you dont love any of these guys...if you did you wouldnt need to ask the question. Dump them all and find the guy who makes you blush just by looking at you....makes your toes curl...makes your heart jump.
2006-12-27 03:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by J D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go with love, of course--nothing is guaranteed no matter how secure you think it is--but why, OH WHY--are you so eager to get married?--you sound very young--enjoy youth and find who you are before you make such a huge life decision
2006-12-27 03:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by hethrg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry for love! if you want a happy life.
2006-12-27 03:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have 3 boyfriends you are obviously not ready to marry anyone.
2006-12-27 03:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by redhairedgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry for love and you may be disappointed later on.
Marry for money and you will crave love.
don't marry at all and keep living!
2006-12-27 03:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by hurricane423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Security is not love. I would choose love every time.
2006-12-27 03:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by mothersister_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doup all of them
2006-12-27 03:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋