I guess thats what you would call bi-curious, but I'm curious as hell! I LOVE MEN! But when I see two women making love I get so hot and heated, I lose control of myself. If I see a beautiful, sexy woman, that I'm attracted to, I fantasize about what I would do to her, and I want to actually do the things to her! Is there something wrong with me?
2006-12-27 03:20:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with you at all. I have had boy and girl friends and the pleasure you get from them is different. with woman to woman it (at least to me) is like a sharing between equal partners and with men it is entirely different but oh so enjoyable.
The hardest part is finding a woman with your views to share with. You can always walk up to a guy and say "wanna F***" (crude, but it works) and more than likely wind up in a bed somewhere. if you did that with most women your reactions won't always be quite as much fun.
Best of luck to you and enjoy playing both sides of the tracks, the other girls will never know what they are missing. ;)
By the way, lots of women are curious but after the first time (kissing , stroking and such but seldom anything more adventuresome) the majority will decide it isn't for them. If you have a girl friend that thinks along the same way and if you can bring the topic into conversation (be very careful as you can also end a friendship here) sound her out. the alternative is to go clubbing. Not what I would recommend due to you have know idea what the people you meet are into or what they might be carrying (STDs). Be careful, have fun and experience life to it's fullest.
2006-12-27 03:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Julie Hartford 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am straight as well and I never intend on being bi-sexual. I do notice when a woman is good looking. I think the female form is very attractive and sensual. I do not fantasize about acting having a sexual relationship with women though no matter how good looking they are. Perhaps you need to explore your own sexuality more to find out if you are bi-sexual or it's maybe a phase that will pass. Either way there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone is different and whether they are gay or straight I still consider them to be normal people...
2016-03-29 08:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that satisfaction level of human is raised now. if you look back 30 years, you will find that doing oral as forplay is not a good thing most people was hating that action but now a days its very common in all over the world. same as being bi for a woman is widly accepted in all over the world. you are quiet fine in this. dont worry at all.
being a male, if i get 2 women instead of 1 i am more than happy :)
2006-12-27 03:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by intrud4r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fantasizing about the same sex, you are not straight as an arrow. I would recommend some counseling to sort things out. Good luck!
Um, lots seem to be saying "just try it, what do you have to lose". I could think of a lot of things you could lose...or gain...like an STD or a reputation
2006-12-27 03:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh you may want to look at what you typed in your head line. Straight as an arrow but fantasize about the opposite sex? Does anyone ever read what they type? Is it lack of sleep? Sex? Coffee?
2006-12-27 03:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by rugby_n_beer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you! Plenty of women are bi-curious or full on bi. If you are that intrigued why not just try, you have nothing to loose. If you don't like it you can just chalk it up to experience. But you will never know unless you just try!
2006-12-27 03:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with you for fantasizing, but when you act upon it, then it is a whole different story. I am happily married, to a man, and never think about women in that way.
2006-12-27 03:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by girlonline64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Imagine - women know what women like. It's perfectly natural to be curious as women are beautiful creatures. I'm hetero too, and the only porn I can watch is girl-on-girl action.
2006-12-27 03:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are bi-curious to me. Does not become bi-sexual until you act on it. You are not being honest with yourselve and probley will never know if you are bi-sexual until you act on it and then see how you feel about the experience.
2006-12-27 03:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by love me despite it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy and reality are two different things. If you desire men and only fantasize about being with women, I think it's just harmless and probably quite normal. I don't think anything is wrong with you.
2006-12-27 03:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋