I was just wondering why some answers have to be so rude...I mean I know I need to hear it but why do I have to be called names & be patronized? I mean it oviously is serious for me why do peopel feel that I need sarcasm when all I want is an honest opinion...some peopel should think about who might be askig before they give "I don't give a **** answer"
2006-12-27 03:14:07 · 20 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't know sweetie
oops did I just call you a name?
2006-12-27 03:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Josephus 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I know it's nice to get a true decent answer, but you really don't know the people you're asking. Some people can care less about any body's grief and situation while others are more caring and compassionate. Some are too compassionate and will agree with everyone, but it may not always be the best advice. Some advice seems harsh, but it's the stone cold truth. Life is not always ladee da. I know some people can over do it being rude, but that's what we leave ourselves open too when we ask a question to thousands upon thousands of people. Look, just take the good answers and trash the rest.
Good Luck, and keep you chin up kiddo !
2006-12-27 03:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because the internet IS so anonymous. People who would never consider being rude or hurtful in real life, suddenly think it's okay. The internet dehumanizes some of us in the minds of others. It's very sad. In a way, it's the same psychological phenomenon as the "mob mentality".
2006-12-27 03:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dee,
This is the real cyber world....no one has a face (don't believe a avatar).....and when folks are not accountable in that no one will recognize them ....it frees them say what ever pops on to the key board.
In a real world ... you see people day after day ...and you just don't walk up and call you boss a fool....and expect to trot on with out repercussions....but here ... the gloves are off .... and it's dark ... no one every knows who really threw the first punch!
Take the free advice for what it is ....free ...use it, adapt it....or toss it all together.
In the end...the only opinion that really matters is yours !
2006-12-27 03:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered a question honestly and I got an email with someone who was very ignorant calling me a stupid Ho...she couldn't even spell the word presidency but she wanted to say I needed to be more educated LOL...
I think both people who ask and answer questions are being abused and it's unfortunate but it seems to be the way alot of people are...
2006-12-27 03:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mix of different thing.... I am guilty of it too... needing to vent or being very touchy about a subject. I spend most of my time it the wedding section and I get called a snot, money hungry... all kinds of stuff because I am having a fancy wedding. Jealous much??
People also do and say things on here that they normally won't because it's like a game to them. No one really knows who you are so it's your chance to be a jackass.
2006-12-27 03:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you, this site is supposed to help people with their questions and some answers are just sooo wrong! just this morning some lady asked if it was ok to put your husband in jail for beating you and some a@#hole said that she probably had it coming. how could you say that to somebody? she had to have been going through a hard time, she didn't need that.
2006-12-27 03:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have everyright to be rude. Its free speech remember ? People have bad days and people always act stupid when it comes time to asking questions. People just can't do the stupid damn research themselves. How hard is it ? Google was invented for a reason. When I read other peoples rude remarks I actually get a chuckle.
Merry Flucking Christmas
2006-12-27 03:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just a**holes and can't deal with other peoples thoughts and ideas... closed minded people are everywhere today in America in particular, as well as the middle east...
And they simply can't deal...
Anyway - good point, and a painful one for all of us...
-dh
2006-12-27 03:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people like you are to wound up. I called someone a dingbat and got zapped.
relax.
2006-12-27 03:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo trolls have no place to vent since yahoo took down News message boards.
2006-12-27 03:15:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋