Okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and we were talking about having sex over the summer. I thought about it, we love each other, we're responsible and I know we're doing it for the right reasons, so I'm gunna do it. However, we're both virgins and I haven't the damndest clue as to what or how I should do it. I want it to be really special and romantic for her and something that she'll really remember. Also, I want it to feel good for her, and since I'm so new at this, I dunno how I'd do that. Can anyone help me out?
2006-12-27 02:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by God Only Knows 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
key thing here is relax. there won't be any pleasure if... you don't relax. ok you don't know wat to do? well.. start with cuddling. with candles. and make her feel special. and well... you love her right? well do things you DREAM of doing with her.
stroking her.. ya know? touching..and kissing her neck and go down//and be creative let her touch you...
2006-12-27 02:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it happen Naturally man, you dont have to go out of your way to have sex... i mean candles and clean sheets is all a girl needs lol... but seriously, just plan a night in bed with eachother and touch and feel and grab and seriously when a girl tells you "do what ever you want" DO IT!! they want you too!! just take it slow your first time, but about the top part of the question, i dated a girl for nine years.. i lost my virginty to her and i dont remember the first time cause we did it like 9 times a day everyday after that for about 5 years
2006-12-27 10:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember my first, it was a joke. Youngsters trying to be stereotypically romantic, then he was so nervous it didn't work. A few tries later and it was very anticlimactic. That Italian egomaster is lucky I didn't tell all of his friends after he cheated on me!
2006-12-27 10:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your ages. But if you think too much about this means you are not ready yet, and it is good you think about it because sex could lead to big responsibilities. Sex sometimes unites people (when they are married), but sex can divide relationships and make them worse and unhealthy.
2006-12-27 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by frankomty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just not ready yet .the only way to know is if youer body is saying yes and your mind is saying yes or no it dosent matter as long as your body is saying yes the youll know what to do and how to do it
2006-12-27 10:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT TILL YOU GROW UP A BIT
2006-12-27 11:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u watch more porns. it helps a lot
2006-12-27 10:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋