i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time? i want advice and your oppinions, i love her i wud love her in my life.
2006-12-27 02:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, stand up for yourself a bit.. you love her, and you will still love her?? even if she doesn't tell you she DOES love you?
alright.. you have feelings for her.. that's understandable.. but take an action and stand up for yourself.. if she wants to enjoy being loved BY YOU, then she HAS TO love you too.. or else. you should be free to have something going on with OTHER girls.
you're not just a spare put aside till needed.
2006-12-27 02:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that maybe she got tempted by some feelings for someone else but she does still love you. To hang in there could be hard but a good idea for a certain amount of time. I would not allow her to keep doing this if she starts seeing someone else right in front of you. I have a young daughter who had been seeing someone for about 6 months and good friends with him for about 6 before that. Another boy she went to school with tarted calling her daily and telling her his sob stories and telling her how pretty he thought she was even though he knew she had a boyfriend. Her feelings started getting confused. I told her mainly because it was someone new paying attention to her which was normal being so young. She after a few weeks ended up breaking up with her boyfriend and dating this other guy. The whole time still hanging out with and constantly on the phone with her old boyfriend. He even though very sick about the whole thing he hung in there. She ended up breaking up with the new boy after only 5 days realizing that she really did still love her boyfriend and it was just the "new" feeling of it all. There is an old saying "If you love her set her free. If she comes back shes yours. If she does not, she never was." Love is not easy!!
2006-12-27 03:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by tessie452004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she did break up with you and it sounds like she wants to kind of see what else is out there. She is just jealous about you dating others and seems to want to have you wait for her to make up her mind.
You don't need to explain yourself or say anything to make her feel better if you want to text/call/date other girls. She is the one who ended it!
Tell her that you agree that you both need time apart and that in the meantime, it would be best if you had no contact so you can think about the relationship. I've found that being friends immediately after a breakup is really hard, if not impossible. Especially when you didn't want the break up to begin with.
She sounds a little manipulative, to be honest!
2006-12-27 02:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun....she sounds very confused and that isnt good for you.....as much as it hurts, you should tell her to figure out what she wants before she involves you. I even feel like she is playing you....teasing and stuff.....im sorry but you sound like an upstanding man and i think you could do better
2006-12-27 02:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jade Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I dont know it sounds to me that she is a jelous ex and she dosnt want you right now but she dosnt want u moving on with anyoneelse either...But again I dont know that hole story and the stuff leading up to the break up....im just going off what u wroter and thats what it sounds like to me...
2006-12-27 02:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u still have feelings for her it might be that she wants u back b-cause that that other relationship diddnt work out but its all up to u what u want to do but i would say just see what happens dont rush things and try to not think about it so much
2006-12-27 02:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing with your emotions, tell her to s**** or get off the pot,, lol, how old are you both? you either can 1- keep putting up with it or 2- find someone else to go out with that knows what they want.
2006-12-27 02:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do think she wants to get you back OR she just want to "play" and flirt.. Maybe she is still confused.
2006-12-27 02:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by chinita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not ur ex..i think u guys are still together...juz confused of wats going on...
2006-12-27 02:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DA.....................................i think so..............
2006-12-27 02:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋