I found out just recenctly that I was expecting again. When I found out I was already in my Second trimester. I have a little boy that is only 2 yrs old and is a mama's boy. How can I tell him that there is going to be a new baby in the family?
2006-12-27 02:37:04 · 8 answers · asked by heathermccleskey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
A two-year-old is old enough to understand this. just explain it to him. Tell him the baby's in mommy's tummy. And when the baby gets here he'll get to help mommy and be a big brother.
It's cute, too, when they understand that the baby is in your tummy. I babysat my two-year-old niece while I was pregnant. She would always say "Hi" to the baby and talk to him. It's adorable!
2006-12-27 02:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter who is now 3 1/2, my son was 2 1/2 . He knew what I was telling him , but he didn't know or didn't understand until I began to show. I would let him feel the baby move in my stomach , or if we were out and about and saw a baby I would say that's what mommy is having your going to have a little sister or brother. And we would just go on and on and have conversations about babies. And towards the end he would start telling people about our baby . So at first he may not even be concerned , but I would suggest talking to him every chance you get , so when baby does arrive he won't mistreat or be jealous, since he is mamma's boy . My son is also.
2006-12-27 11:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dark & Lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your son is only 2, he will not fully understand what you mean when you tell him there's going to be a new baby. There are many books available to help him learn about being a big brother. One is called "I'm a Big Brother Now" by Joanna Cole. It's fantastic!
You can start pointing out babies when you run errands and take him with you to your dr appointments so he can hear the heart beat and see the ultrasound. It will still be unclear to him, but he will start to feel the anticipation of the new arrival.
Help him shop with you for the baby and include him as much as possible. Once your due date nears, pick out a special gift he can give the baby AND one he will get from the baby. My oldest girls still remember the girls their baby sister "gave" them when she was born.
If he's a mama's boy, he might just turn out to be a very big helper getting diapers and wipes for you and putting the diapers in the trash. Remember that if you stress out about the transition, he will feel it and start to act out. Stay calm and he will too!
Best to you!
Susan
www.JoyFilledHome.com
2006-12-27 22:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Michael and Susan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep it pretty simple since he is still young. You basically tell him that mommy has another baby in her tummy. When the baby comes out, you keep your toddler as involved as you can so he won't get jealous. Let him fetch a diaper for you, or wipes. Let him 'help' you fold towels (even though it will be less help for you, more fun for him) but small things like that will help him adjust to having a new baby in the house.
You will also need to teach him how to treat a baby. He will probably be a little rough with the new baby at first, but all you have to do is gently place your toddler's hands on the baby, and say something like, "gently" or "softly" they will get the hang of it. If you see your toddler is being really whiny, grumpy and clingy, hand over the new baby to daddy and give him your attention for a few minutes. Make sure you leave enought time for you and your toddler to have quality time together, even if it's only 15 minutes at a time.
2006-12-27 14:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and explain that mommy has a new baby brother or sister in your belly and try for him to say hello to the baby , kids understand and they are intelligent and as your belly grows explain to him that his brother or sister loves him too... I have a two yrs old and I'm due in February andn he hugs my belly and even kiss my bally and he know there is baby there but also don't forget to show him that you will still love him no matter what .... Congrats and good luck !!!!
2006-12-27 12:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that there is a baby in my mommy's tummy and point to it. Show him pictures of babies. Read books to him about being a big brother. Bring him to appts espically the u/s. Also you could buy him a baby doll. I did that with my oldest daughter when I found out I was pregnant and I told her that mommy was going to have a baby. And that we could practice w/ her baby doll on how to take care of a baby. :) Good luck!
2006-12-27 11:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book and read it to him, one that explains the process ~ make him feel like he is part of the pregnancy in which he really is. Share stories with him about when he was in "your belly". I'm sure the books will help you.
Good Luck & Congratulations!
2006-12-27 10:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by kim_n_orlando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest w/ the kid and make sure you include him w/ the different activities that you will do w/ your newborn in the future. That way, he won't feel that he is left out and he won't feel jealous.
2006-12-31 03:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by reza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋