when the all the signs are saying no, but you're gut instinct is screaming yes... which would you follow and why?
I just don't know what to do.
2006-12-27 02:02:59 · 31 answers · asked by Mand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure he proves his worth before he gets anything from you.
Stay in control and be his prize at the end
2006-12-27 02:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts are sometimes intertwined with you past experiences and perceptions. It really depends on the situation. what you are looking for is an answer that only you can come up with. The signs could also just be your perception. There is a place with in you that knows the answer. Listen very closely to that voice. The choice that seems harder but ultimately will produce more results is usually the one you should be going with. If you are a afraid of it emotionally its probably something that should be explored. Your "instincts" are almost always correct in a life threatening situation. In matters of the heart and or emotional issues are different. Your instincts are based on survival. And in emotional situations your instincts are still in survival mode...but cant be relied upon always due to past experiences. Your "gut" may be reacting to a past experience that has no bearing on the present moment.
I have in the past followed my "gut" only to repeat past mistakes.
Look at your motivation more closely. The answer is there...ask a different question. Say it out loud for the whole universe to hear.
Doing that will help you get a better perspective on the question at hand. What is it you want...really want. Not what you have always thought you wanted. The lines get crossed many times.
Take the road less traveled. Not by everyone...but by you. Go down the path that belongs to you only.
2006-12-27 02:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut instinct. Signs can be deceiving. I'm in a situation that the signs are telling me no---but my heart and my gut instinct is saying yes...and if it turns out that I was wrong---then I have at least followed my heart and tried for a chance to be happy. Good luck.
2006-12-27 02:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your birth sign. If you're born between August and February trust your instincts 8/10 times, more when it's a full moon. Born between March and July then trust your brain 8/10 times. More when there's no moon.
2006-12-27 04:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Phew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Sometimes when we trust our emotions we can make irrational or rational decisions. If all of the signs are telling you that this is a dangerous situation but your spirit is screaming "DO IT!" listen to the signs. But sometimes, you just have to trust your instinct because it could save a life like if you know something just isn't right. It is up to you though, I suggest you trust both.
Kiarra S.
2006-12-27 02:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach situations knowing that your instincts don't always show the right way to go. There are lots of times when you just want to punch someone or do something else that's inappropriate and you just shouldn't. You have the ability to reason so that you can use it. Use your instincts and your reason to asses every situation and make the best decision without jumping to conclusions.
2006-12-27 02:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by skater60016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to go with common sense. Weigh the differences and see what the outcome is. Remember gut instincts can be tricky but common sense works every time.
2006-12-27 02:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very WISE man once told me never listen to your heart but instead listen to your gut instinct... The reason being your heart will get you hurt, but your gut is always right..
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-27 02:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by ahg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can look past the cobwebs, the meaning is right in your heart.
But know this:
Wisdom and knowledge are not the same thing. Intellect can never lead to a complete insight. One has to use one's entire being to come into contact with the truth.
If you are unable to decide, what have you lost by inaction or action, that which you do not already have ?
2006-12-27 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by pax veritas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans don't have instincts sorry, we do as a baby and the only one we have is to hold our breath when we go underwater, other than that, we would be the only animals/mamals on this planet not to have any instincts :-)
2006-12-27 02:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nurse KeVo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my instincts cause i know that they are most of the times the true ones
anyone should know for himself but i would tell u to follow them as u might spend the rest of ur life wondering : what would be if
good luck
2006-12-27 02:07:09 · answer #11 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋