ive been with my parterner for 2 years and have a home and 1 kid together and 2 from previous relationship,past 6 months my bf is moody everyday sulks and snaps ect.im sick of it but i believe we can work it out as when he not moody we get along great.yesterday(xmas day) i had all my family around and in the middle of the day he started one of his moods and showed my whole family what he is really like.he shouted at my mum and also made his mum cry.
after the day was finished i told him how out of order he was and made him ring up everyone to say sorry.job done!
but since then all im getting from my mum and sister is to leave him,kick him out on the streets ect,i no why they are saying this and i would prob feel the same if i was in there situation but they dont seem to realise that this is my boyfriend and father of my kid and i love him,i cant just kick him out even if i wanted to!!
my mum is always ringing me up moaning about my sisters boyfrined saying how much she dislikes
2006-12-27 01:59:55 · 4 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
him ect and my sister dont no this but now my mum is ringing up her saying the same about my bf saying that she hates him ect and im better off with out him and my sister is saying the same to her back.im having them ring me up every 1 minutes trying to arrange outins without him ect.i feel i can no longer talk to my sister as she now goes running back to my mum with everything i say.i dont want to leave my bf as i love him ect and shouldnt just do it coz my family says so.they have liked him for everyother day for the last 2 years.i rang my sister up this morning up and told her that i told my bf to sort himself out and to be sorry ect and she had a go at me telling me i should kick him out on the streets ect! i didnt want her advice just for her to listen .then i get a call from my mum talking about the stuff ui had just told my sister IN CONFIDENCE.
2006-12-27 02:00:54 · update #1
I believe there maybe some mental issues going on with your boyfriend. He may need some counseling to see where this behavior is coming from. Once this happens maybe there's a chance to repair the relationship. If not, you may need to end the relationship because what kind of example is he setting for the children?
2006-12-27 02:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him...really talk to him...dont make demands for apologies etc. Im assuming hes not abusive to you...if he is leave right now....otherwise he has to know how you feel...that you feel pressured from outside your relationship because of his behaviour and tense and unhappy within the relationship because of his moods. there can be all sorts of reasons for his behaviour and you may be contributing to then unknowingly. You need to talk to him without accusations or recriminations....and you also need to LISTEN to him. As for your mom and sister...if until this Christmas they liked the guy then dont read too much into their opinions and if they are breaking confidences, dont confide in them. For some people who have difficulties in their own relationships its comforting to see what was a good relationship for others, falling apart. Its not too late to save this but dont bury your head in the sand and pretend its ok. Dont allow him to either...but persuade rather than demand. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 03:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well u need 2 talk 2 ur boyfrend n take help of Doctor if needed
2006-12-27 03:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your too close to him to see the damage he is doing. But if your happy then go with that but down the track u will see wat they have been trying to say to u.
2006-12-27 10:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋