I have a crush on a guy friend of mine, whom I see at work everyday. I have suggested to him that we stop talking altogether so I can get over him. What do you think of this?
2006-12-27 01:57:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why did you tell him that you should stop talking? obviously you like him, and since you have to see him at work everyday, its going to be really hard not to talk to him! i say you should ask him out to like see a movie or something, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out! i don't see why every girl expects the guy to make the first move, and when they don't they get all upset. you shouldn't tell him that, maybe he likes you too!
2006-12-27 02:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck would u want to get over him? I mean, if the rules at work say u can't like freaking have a crush on him or somtin, thats stupid. Most jobs say u just can't have "a relationship". That shouldn't stop u from having a crush on him, or if he asks u on a date, say yes and don't let the work place no about it. Besides, whats wrong with just talking to him?
2006-12-27 02:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by fizzycola5539 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you want is to get over him, then that's a great idea. If he is available, however, and you both are interested, then why not give it a try? If you value your job more than your relationships, then I understand forgetting about it, but office romances do not HAVE to be a bad thing. It just depends. In the end, you have to do what makes YOU feel comfortable.
2006-12-27 02:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋