It's doing my head in. I like this guy and have done for a while. Over the past year we have kissed on a number of different occasions, and have gone a little further, but have not had sex. The situation is a bit complicated as we kind of worked together, but do not any more. Anyway, I've made it clear how I feel, and although I get the impression he does like me, there is always something that seems to hold him back. I've decided that I need to move on. I really like this guy, but there's only so much heartache I can take. How can I get this guy out of my head? I've started dating, but it doesn't seem to have any effect. Any ideas?
2006-12-27 01:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in exaclty the same situation! but the thing is i have no advice to give you because i dont no what to do either, it will all work out in the end, a good luck, i just wanted you 2 know ur not alone!! x
2006-12-27 02:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again. If he doesn't make a move after your talk....then at least you know you gave it one last shot. It'll be something you won't regret later on in life. It might help your mind settle a bit not having those "what ifs" floating around in there. Don't give up on the things you really want in life....cause some things are definately worth fighting for. If it doesn't work out, spend some time with friends-that always helps cheer me up and they always help me find my confidence when I lose it! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-27 09:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel confused and not be able to concentrate . did you think a new man in your life would make you change your feelings for this person . Love works in wierd and wonderfull ways . time is the only way you will get over this person . Good luck iv been there and getting the badge
2006-12-27 09:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't hear where the break up happened. Did you leave him cause he wouldn't do more than kiss? Maybe he doesn't believe in sex before marriage. If so, grab a hold of him . . . he's a good one.
Can you give more detail about why you're not together?
2006-12-27 09:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds gay and maybe the only way that you can get him out of your mind is too think of him in a 3 some with 2 other men, sick ba*tard!!!
2006-12-27 09:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u make it clear how u feel means that u told him ??? if yes and he holds itself back u must go on and give urself time to get over it
noo magic pill , i wish there would be one , could use it for myself :-)
good luck
2006-12-27 10:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try thinking he doesnt like you
2006-12-27 12:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by styce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋