My friend who's 21 who i've been hanging out with quite a bit lately (just in his car talking mainly or going driving)... & texting a lot, talking a lot on msn etc... has actually told me i'm more than welcome over his place next yr when his parents are away... after a texting session when i was upset & drinking by myself... he said we could do whatever i wanted, stay over or whatever, its up to me... he's real nice to me & he's told me he likes me & misses me all the time, but he's also told me he's not after a relationship just yet since his last relationship ended pretty bad a few months ago..... should i go? we're just good friends at the moment. any advice about this please. he hasn't made any moves other than cuddling, but he's definately not shy & i am... i've told him i like him tho
2006-12-27 01:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus... I'm a virgin & he told me he'd never screw me around...
2006-12-27 01:47:18 · update #1
I disagree with some of your other answers...he doesn't "definitely just want you there to have sex with him"....while that may be the case, there really are some decent guys out there. I would still say though, don't go over there unless it is ok with his parents. It's their house and it's disrespectful to be t here if they are against it. Also, keep in mind that if you two DO stay together for a long period of time, you will inevitably become closer...which could lead to sexual longings...since you are a virgin (and I give you huge props for that, more people should follow your example), don't just give it up because you are close and he's a great guy....keep holding out. Wait for "The" guy....wait till you're married. Trust me, it will be worth it!
2006-12-27 01:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by I'minlovewiththeboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how you said your shy and he's not... well this is your chance to overcome your shyness. Even if this doesn't work out, it'll still help you learn something. Don't enter his house thinking somthing's going down, just go with the flow. If ya'll are just friends try to keep it that way. Just go over there and have fun. By the way, I'm a little disturbed by the parents away part. Why does it have to be while his parents aren't home? I think he's trying to hide something. You can check if his parents know you're coming over but if not, it's best you not go...
2006-12-27 01:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be just testing the water with someone who he trusts. If he hasn't already made the move, it's unlikely he would without you showing a sign. Only go over there if you feel safe, and you truly trust him. If not, there is nothing to stop you popping over for the day and coming home at night.
Most women can tell if they are being played. Just play it by ear.
2006-12-27 01:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bigfoote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,you know what happens when 2 horny rabbits get locked in a room together? look, just tell yourself what your limits are before you go over. he doesnt want a relationship,he wants yourfreindship(body),just remember that.go over there and have a fun time. he wants sex,but knows he might not get it,so his mood might change from the beginning of your stay till the end.
2006-12-27 01:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 09:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still want to be a virgin next week? He wants you there for one thing. He wants sex. After sex he will not have a need for you. Stay home.
2006-12-27 01:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like this guy wants to get in your pants and by telling you that he doesn't want a relationship he's really saying that after he gets what he wants, don't expect him to be your boyfriend.
Be careful, these guys are smooth sweet talkers.
2006-12-27 01:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do you people think hes after sex? i mean come on, guys arent alwayssex hungry beasts. just most of the time.` but seriously, go over, be naughty for a few days, but be careful, i cud mess up the friendliness of the relationship. u cud be more afterwards, or you could be less. ba careful, do wat you feel is best.
2006-12-27 01:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Veski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a chance to take him for a "test drive".
2006-12-27 01:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but dont bring anybody with ya. Yel just piss him off
2006-12-27 01:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by zzband.taliesin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋