there is this guy who always gets on my nerve. he insults, criticises, gets into my way all the time, finds fault with me, laughs at me when i get into trouble etc etc. everytime i get so frustrated with him, he spoils my day and weighs my mood down. any ideas how to deal with someone like this?
2006-12-27 01:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are making a choice to allow him to bother you. Just ignore him and he will most likely leave you alone if he sees that it's not bothering you. If you feel threatened by him, tell someone who can help get him off your back ( parent, friend, older brother, cops,etc.) Doing something mean only to get even may only add fuel to the fire.
2006-12-27 01:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the more u get frustrated the more he will keep teasing u, wut u have to do is keep smiling, and that is very important, even if u dont feel good, just do it, hide how u feel, the first days will do no change in him, and u might get just bored of it, and stop hiding it, and ignoring him, but dont then you will see, i tried alot and i kept on just beinng happy when hes around to make him get even more pissed then i get bored of it cuz he will try harder then i get into more trouble, then i stop and break down, you will feel the same way, but if u feel like ur gonna be kinda sad or ur gonna break down, go into the bathroom, and do it there, until u feel better.
just ignore him and try to hide it, if he enjoys you being sad, it will get him soooooo00o0o0o0 mad if ur happy, so dont ever stop laughing when hes around! ; )
ull be fine, ull be great, beleive me.
2006-12-27 01:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by MB_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and agree with him. He'll soon find he is not getting to you and get bored, He feeds off your anger and if you just smile and say your right,or laugh with him he'll get tired of you and move on to someone else or just stop all toghether. Good luck.
2006-12-27 01:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature that if someone is a "ball buster" and knows that he/she can get under your skin, they will forever. Further, it is also true that if you agree with that person, ignore them, etc etc they will not get their jolly's anymore and go pester someone else.
2006-12-27 01:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just find his weakness or a strength and make him go nuts because guys do not like when some one plays with their weak ness or strength i am sure every thing works out fine for you
2006-12-27 01:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask why he is doing this to you ?
If the explanation is groundless and funny,
Say like this
THE NEXT TIME i am gonna throw anything , I mean it.
2006-12-27 01:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. He will get the hint hopefully sooner rather than later
Or be honest and let him know how you feel.
2006-12-27 01:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. After he sees you're not getting upset, he'll stop expending the energy to do it!
2006-12-27 01:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore him!! He is probably getting pleasure from your misery, so just act like you don't care.
2006-12-27 01:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by danika1066 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him
2006-12-27 01:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Miroku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋