He is 39 , i am 28 this year.
We have been dating for 6 months and i have yet to visit his house nor meet his family.
I am a little traditional gal, and wish to meet his parents. And get the confirmation i am his girl you see. Humh...
But i am clueless on how to open my mouth.
Any answer in helping me ?
2006-12-27 01:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by devil22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had mentioned his family members etc.. infront of me. Did discuss about marriage issue, and he was saying give us 2 years time. For both of us to think over if we are right for each other. He told me he love me.. humh.. I wonder it's enough.
2006-12-27 01:49:45 · update #1
i should say he want 2 years time to stable our relationship coz our relationship is still very young green.
2006-12-27 01:51:46 · update #2
Looking at what i understand his lifestyle. He hasn't got much friends and he did mentioned who and what his buddy do. Where he go he will let me know, e.g location and purpose on his own accord. I didn't request for that.
2006-12-27 01:56:18 · update #3
I may be wrong, but at six months if you've haven't even been to his house, three's probably a good reason why: he doesn't want you to meet his wife!
Start picking up on the clues, kiddo, like Dr. Phil says; those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
2006-12-27 01:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy I dated over the summer (whom I had not planned to introduce to my parents) changed my mind when he told me that 'if I'm good enough to date you I am good enough to meet your parents.' Actually, I hadn't realized that it meant anything to him to be introduced to them. After that comment, I made the introduction. Now my parents get to tease me about him too. Not so great! But I can understand why you would want to meet his parents. I wonder if he's introduced you to his best friends--that's an impt. clue as well as to how he views your relationship. good luck (and make your wishes known)
2006-12-27 09:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if doesn't want you to meet them he maybe telling you something. Just casually broach the subject of family with him and see what he says, he may be embarassed of them. When he is telling you about them, just casually say you would like to meet them and see what his reaction is.
2006-12-27 09:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not tell if he mentions his family, i fnot he does not want to introduce to them, ask him why is that, after 6 months
2006-12-27 09:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not offer to have them over to your house? Suggest a brunch, if he is uncomfortable with that maybe you could all meet some where for brunch?
2006-12-27 09:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by beth9878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is like his mother or his father, this opens things up for him to talk about his family. After that bring up they seem interesting and you are interesting in them. Not just hear about them.
2006-12-27 09:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd love to meet your parents. Can I make dinner for them, what do they like?
2006-12-27 09:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u want him to meet ur family after u can meet his parents
2006-12-27 09:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you will have to wait until he asks you to meet them
2006-12-27 09:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well considering holidays just passed, and you didnt meet them then, its not lookin good. you dont request, just give it time.
2006-12-27 09:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by kellbelle21 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋