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shes a cheerleader but shes not the snobby type that evryone hates, in fact shes rele nice. she just got out of a three month relationshipwith her boyfriend, but he cheated on her, so she took it hard. were kind of friends now, but i want to be more than that...what should i do and how should i do it?

2006-12-27 01:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Veski 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Do something nice for her but don't push it. Just be there ahhhh or you can come on strong and get what you want she'll be on the rebound and need the attention but nothing more will come of it.

2006-12-27 01:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 1 · 0 0

Step up to the plate young man and make a bold move. If she needs a friend to talk to, be that friend. If she wants to hang out at the mall, go to the movies, grab a bite to eat, be accommodating. You need to ensure that she becomes comfortable in your presence, that you're easy to talk to, and that you are someone she can trust. I laughed about how you described her 'three month relationship' as being a 'pretty heavy relationship.' That would be considered a brief crush in most circles, but you may be a really young person. Develop the friendship that already exists in order to reach your goal of becoming her boyfriend. Just be careful that she has no reason to mistrust you, keep it honest, and be a good boyfriend. Good Luck

2006-12-27 09:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.

You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting their number or a date.

The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".

Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.

2006-12-29 15:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just keep it light and be her friend, ask her over for popcorn and a video.

Or ask her out for coffee or to breakfast!!

just treat her like you would a so-so looking girl you would ask out, and just got out of a great relationship.

she needs a friend and needs to build trust.
I assume you think the relationship was crappy........she's the one who was in it for the love.
tread lightly
don't bring him up
don't talk about x's or her relationships with men

Beware of rebound relationships, you don't want to be the shoulder to cry on, until she finds another -- do you?
and what if she goes back to him?

Is it too soon to "date" her?
I would just be her friend, and not worry about the romance part.

call her and ask her if there is anything she wants, NOT NEEDS........just name 1 thing, and do it!
OR-- pick up coffee and drop by with a sweet treat, be sure she's up and ask to be invited in.

send her flowers, with a nice note, saying i'd love to be "just friends" and add your phone number.

bring her ice cream!!! ben and jerries, 1/2 baked or ny fudge!
or cookie dough!

bake her cookies, and call and say, you'd like to drop off some cookies you just baked while they are still warm and made too many and thought of her....and hope she invites you over!!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh that's sweet!

2006-12-27 09:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0 0

Let her lick her wounds , for a bit , and after that make your move , but make sure that the ex-boyfriend doesn`t want to return to her and then make you one with the ground . Got me ?
And , good luck .

2006-12-27 09:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Miroku 3 · 0 0

it will take time but as time goes with you always with her, everything will come naturally...just make her feel special that will tell her that you are the guy who will not let her cry.

2006-12-27 09:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by mcbeth007 2 · 0 0

I think you and her should start some friendly conversations, and then make her feel she can open up to you.

2006-12-27 09:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by IcanHelpyou:) 3 · 0 0

tell her how you feel, be honest. keep it slow because shes on the rebound but be completely honest.

2006-12-27 09:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_willy_7 1 · 0 0

start off as friends first

2006-12-27 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't let her rest up

2006-12-27 09:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0 0

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