My new guy friend I've been hanging out with quite a bit lately isn't up for a relationship, just wants a break from the last chick & get himself together... but he really likes me & i like him... or so he told me, but he hasn't tried anything else other than cuddling...? And I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to guys... I wanna make a move, but I'm too shy and I'm scared what'd happen... I don't wanna screw up the relationship. He comes over an hour to see me, but he likes driving a lot... so yeh, help lol
2006-12-27 00:53:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he likes you and hes has it hard with this previous girl, why not take it slow? cuddling is fine and if you just be there for him and let him know how you feel? when hes ready to take it further with you he will.
2006-12-27 00:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, don't rush it. He may be interested, but needs some time to get over his last relationship. The fact is, however, that he may never be interested. All you can do is take it slow, let him know how you feel, and see what happens. It may well work out, and then you can do what you want, but be prepared! If he is not interested, then there is not much you can do about it. The important thing is to make sure he knows how you feel. Don't waste his (or your) time if it turns out he just likes you as a friend, and you want more. That said, it could turn out that he didn't know how you liked him, and actually feels the same way. You never know until you talk about it. Be patient. Be understanding. Good luck!
2006-12-27 01:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what you want or how old you are, which makes it very difficult to answer. You don't ask a question, which makes it, well, impossible to answer. So just some advice: lots of guys like to just hang out with a girl they sort-of like, and perhaps get a little cuddling in as well. It's likely your friend wants no more than that, and you'll have to decide how to handle that.
2006-12-27 01:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy just wants a good friend right now and it sounds like you have a nice friendship...leave it that way,,,don't pressure him you will scare him away. Friendships are very important and you really get to know the other person. Give it time, when both of you are ready tto take it further, it will come easily and natural. Good luck.
2006-12-27 01:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by klouise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been honest with you about what he's going through and your attention is helping him cope. Don't push the issue and enjoy his company. He will make a move if hes ready but it seems like he has respect for you, don't lose it!
2006-12-27 00:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything.
Cultivating a friendship will make a relationship last longer.
Good Luck.
2006-12-27 00:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just slow down, give him some time and let him make the first move. But by all means, flirt with him heaps!
2006-12-27 00:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just let it go and juust be really good friends while he gets himself together. i no it hurts but he will realize how much he needs you.hope everything works out for the best. take care
2006-12-27 01:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by nunya b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you WILL screw up if you get him on the rebound, think about it, ok
2006-12-27 00:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by auntymadness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋