there life means after achieving there aims but girl said she dont like sex and she will not going to do it at any cost and she also dont like any physical contact so there will be no kiss or hug any thing and boy agrees but not completely but he said he will change himself means he said he will not do anything but he is feeling that can he live with all this then he think he love her very much and he can live like that for his love so IS THAT RIGHT OR DO U THINK HE CAN LIVE WHOLE LIFE WITH HER WITHOUT TOUCHING HER HUH? PLZ GIVE SERIOUS ANSWER ONLY
2006-12-27 00:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by ronit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every one needs to be touched, and loved, it is not normal, he may have to move on to someone that fits him better, he can love the non touching girl as a friend.
2006-12-27 00:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this girl has some serious issues. Maybe she was sexually abused in the past. Whatever the reason for her feelings against physical contact, this guy must deal with the situation very gently. If he really does love her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her, he needs to help her deal with her problem. Maybe going to couples therapy or suggesting she talk to a professional about her problem. However, it isn't right that this guy commits his life to her and has to abstain from having sex FOREVER! She can't expect him to do that...no matter how much he loves her. It's a natural thing for people to want to have physical contact with others. If he does stay with this girl, he'll probably wind up cheating on her down the line. I think he really needs to talk with her and see if there is any way they can come to a conclusion where both people are happy.
2006-12-27 09:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! man can go their whole life with out some sort of contact with the woman they love and if she doesn't like sex them maybe she has been in a relationship before where the bloke was really rough and hurt her all the time while having sex
2006-12-27 08:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell u this coming from someone who kinda feels your pain. Thats not the route you want to take because affection has to be in a relationship. All humans want to be hugged kissed and apreciated.I've never heard of a female that does'nt like to be embraced.
2006-12-27 09:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by ms21lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sex-less marriage? Never will work, sorry! Commiting body and soul is the only way a marriage will work and is the true bond of love.
2006-12-27 08:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,ronit
it is difficult for u, not only for u but for anyone to live with his lover after marriage without sex.So dear u must ask ur gf that y she is not interested in this only after marriage. does she not want any child as a symbol for ur love.If u want sex in life then make her romantic for doing all this things. u should consult medicines which help in sex.
ok
Best of luck
2006-12-27 09:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by geetika gupta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she dont want doesnt mean he shouldnt have it
2006-12-27 08:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by nunya b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋